"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Writing texts / letters to girls - looking for iPhone app testers

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Hi,
I don't know if this should go here, or to the Anything Else forum...

I'm working on a series of apps that help aspiring DJs with writing texts and letters to girls.

The idea, more or less, is that an app would provide a structure that wouldn't allow for rambling too much (and therefore would prevent AFCs from writing these long letters they like), and on the other hand - would provide an inspiration and some suggestions on what to write.

So - any DJs/AFCs with iPhone/iPad/iPod willing to try? Either pm me, or reply here saying what you think about the idea :)

Cheers,
Handsome_man

P.S.: I hope you won't consider this a spam - I'm not mentioning a company name, and this is the only forum I'm asking on :)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm interested to at least hear more. I'm not so sure how successful an app like this would be, so I would be interested to see it.
 
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I just hope you know what you're talking about, and have fieldtested what you put in there several times.
 
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PDubb75 said:
I'm interested to at least hear more. I'm not so sure how successful an app like this would be, so I would be interested to see it.
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Noted. I'll pm you once I have something.

NorwegianDJ said:
I just hope you know what you're talking about, and have fieldtested what you put in there several times.
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That's why I'm asking fellow DJs to help me field test it :)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What a horrendously bad idea. It's very easy to send an SMS to a girl. It's literally how you'd send anybody else an SMS. By creating such a program, you're violating the law of not putting the ***** on the pedestal.
 
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