"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Wrists

Zero Hero

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Hey guys, I got a typical skinny guy problem. Now first off, I am 6'3" 200 lbs. so I am pretty strong, but most of my mass is in my chest, shoulders, and biceps. I am starting to work harder on legs, but one thing that is bugging me is my skinny wrists. I have long limbs so I'm trying to work on this. Anybody know a way to work on my extremities like wrists? I have been doing some forearm exercises lately, but the aren't helping too much. It's kinda funny, I have gone from 180 to 200 and thought I'd look kinda big, but I really think I need to go to 230-240 now before I look how I want.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Skilla_Staz

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Your wrists are a bone/joint. You can't make them larger. Sure, lifting will increase bone size/density, but not to the extent where you have huge wrists. I suggest just building up some forarm size, then you'll love your skinny wrists. It makes your arms look bigger than they really are.
 

thefonz

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Well, I for one have really skinny wrists and YES they can be worked in the gym (not so much in the typical bodypart fashion but they can be worked)

Your body is covered in muscle and the same rule applies to building muscle anywhere on your body, hit it then rest it.

All you have to do to build wrists is squeeze the bar whenever you're lifting, it's that simple. When doing benches, squeeze, when doign military presses, squeeze, when doing bicep curls, squeeze. I'm willing to guess you have skinny ankles too so you also might wanna try the 'farmer's walk' or whatever when you carry some heavy dumbells on your side and walk til you drop.

Good Luck.
 
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