Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What the he11 does it mean when the girl behind you in class writes her name all over your arm in class? I guess it is a sign of interest level, but I have doubts.
no, what I want to know is why in earth they want to do this. What pleasure do they derive from scribbling from other people. This happens so much to me that its getting ridiculous.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by dastal
What the he11 does it mean when the girl behind you in class writes her name all over your arm in class? I guess it is a sign of interest level, but I have doubts.
no, what I want to know is why in earth they want to do this. What pleasure do they derive from scribbling from other people. This happens so much to me that its getting ridiculous.
They used to do that to me. Now I don't let them anymore.

Take it with a grain of salt. They are retarded.
 

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Originally posted by dastal
What the he11 does it mean when the girl behind you in class writes her name all over your arm in class? I guess it is a sign of interest level, but I have doubts.
no, what I want to know is why in earth they want to do this. What pleasure do they derive from scribbling from other people. This happens so much to me that its getting ridiculous.
I don't know if you are trying to brag or you are just that clueless... Of course it means she is interested. Think of it is her marking her property...tell her that she better stop because you're out of markers so u gonna have to give her a hickey or punch her in the head...lmao. Of course there is a chance she isn't but you should approach damn near EVERY situation like she wants to have your man babies down her throat.

Even if she isn't interested, you can reciprocate with kino on her and drawing on her and CREATE ATTRACTION.
 

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I know it isan interest thing, im not that thick, that wasnt the point. but thanks anyway. I wanted to know why. What makes them happy when they write this crap?
Think of it is her marking her property
Makes sense, but i want to know deep down why. I know, im rambling on something trivial, but im a stubborn bastard.
I really think I just want to see what they are thinking. Its a fruitless pursuit. I know. I just want someone else to confirm what Im thinking for some closure.
They are retarded.
haha:p

This sounds stupid.
Its late. I should sleep, but I cant.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Holy God... This stuff used to happen to me and I see what I could have done. I am in college now and I wish I could go back to high school for instances like this. You should tell her to quit writing on your arm and when she asks why say something along the lines of, "Cause you're a big flirt". Say it jokingly of course, but (heres the tricky part) mean it.
Believe me, you will stand out in the group of people if you don't go along with this type of stuff. Honestly I'm not putting this stuff down because its flirting in a simple form. But if she has done this before a number of times, try and take the flirting to a higher level.
 
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