"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What the he11 does it mean when the girl behind you in class writes her name all over your arm in class? I guess it is a sign of interest level, but I have doubts.
no, what I want to know is why in earth they want to do this. What pleasure do they derive from scribbling from other people. This happens so much to me that its getting ridiculous.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by dastal
What the he11 does it mean when the girl behind you in class writes her name all over your arm in class? I guess it is a sign of interest level, but I have doubts.
no, what I want to know is why in earth they want to do this. What pleasure do they derive from scribbling from other people. This happens so much to me that its getting ridiculous.
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They used to do that to me. Now I don't let them anymore.

Take it with a grain of salt. They are retarded.
 
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Originally posted by dastal
What the he11 does it mean when the girl behind you in class writes her name all over your arm in class? I guess it is a sign of interest level, but I have doubts.
no, what I want to know is why in earth they want to do this. What pleasure do they derive from scribbling from other people. This happens so much to me that its getting ridiculous.
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I don't know if you are trying to brag or you are just that clueless... Of course it means she is interested. Think of it is her marking her property...tell her that she better stop because you're out of markers so u gonna have to give her a hickey or punch her in the head...lmao. Of course there is a chance she isn't but you should approach damn near EVERY situation like she wants to have your man babies down her throat.

Even if she isn't interested, you can reciprocate with kino on her and drawing on her and CREATE ATTRACTION.
 
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I know it isan interest thing, im not that thick, that wasnt the point. but thanks anyway. I wanted to know why. What makes them happy when they write this crap?
Think of it is her marking her property
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Makes sense, but i want to know deep down why. I know, im rambling on something trivial, but im a stubborn bastard.
I really think I just want to see what they are thinking. Its a fruitless pursuit. I know. I just want someone else to confirm what Im thinking for some closure.
They are retarded.
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haha:p

This sounds stupid.
Its late. I should sleep, but I cant.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Holy God... This stuff used to happen to me and I see what I could have done. I am in college now and I wish I could go back to high school for instances like this. You should tell her to quit writing on your arm and when she asks why say something along the lines of, "Cause you're a big flirt". Say it jokingly of course, but (heres the tricky part) mean it.
Believe me, you will stand out in the group of people if you don't go along with this type of stuff. Honestly I'm not putting this stuff down because its flirting in a simple form. But if she has done this before a number of times, try and take the flirting to a higher level.
 
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