"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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i have been toying with making this post for a few days,m but every day the woman just gets more outlandish.

i have a client, who we are building a website for. She's in the adult industry. she's in her early 50's (but quite cougarish.. ). i don't know if this is industry women or whatever but, everything she does, just screams "pay me some attention"


she tells me she is into s and m
she tells me 30 minutes later that she is an ordained minister
she tell me her dad was shot when she was 9 years old (why the **** does everything happen when you are 9)
she tells me she also likes women


if this is your avg 50 year old god help you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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backbreaker said:
i have a client, who we are building a website for. She's in the adult industry.

That's all I needed to hear. And you're surprised? Run!

Psycho/NPD/BPD/Histrionic? Probably all of that.
 

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Paging BigJimbo, BigJimbo to the MM section STAT! Paging BigJimbo!

Dude. Chics in the adult industry are gonna have more issues than Natty Geo.
 

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Anyone know of a woman with daddy issues that is relatively normal? Not me. I used to really loathe the misogyny of rap music until I realized that these rappers have been probably dealing with nothing but fatherless BPD psychos their whole lives.
Ding ding ding. we have a winner.

then you wonder why they get with some plain jane white girl who is nothing special, mainly because she just acts "normal". Of course you have plenty who go for the gold digging hot chics as well.
 
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