"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Wow....women rationalizing a MAN cheating?

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Kate is a prime example of the modern young westernized female wanting it all and doing anything possible to have it. She feels entitled and deserving of everyone and everything she wants.

Jon is guilty of being that passive male that let's it happen.

He woke up and she doesn't like it.

They may have both done wrong things, so I'm not absolving either of them.

But I think it's clear from Kate's behavior who the big mean tyrant in the relationship is.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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By looking at this guy, his face expression and posture, I thought that he was a total wimp. But it seems like he is a smart guy. He knew how to take advantage of what "fame" is bringing to him. Wasnt he seen with yet another women beyond the teacher ?
I think I like this guy. I think the divorce will be a good fight.
 

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They may have both done wrong things, so I'm not absolving either of them.
do you think any of them are looking for your aproval ?
 

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SXS said:
do you think any of them are looking for your aproval ?
Seeing as how they don't know me they cannot get my approval one way or another.

However I am going to pass judgement on the situation and express my viewpoint as we all are free to do here regardless of them asking for my approval or not.

If you have a problem with that...get over it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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...Or does this give credence to the idea that women really didn't have that much of a problem with men having multiple wives as long as the MAN was 'worth' it??
 

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radiodude said:
...Or does this give credence to the idea that women really didn't have that much of a problem with men having multiple wives as long as the MAN was 'worth' it??
Absofukkinglutely.

And it also gives credence to the idea that a woman can never really "love" you unconditionally. The are ALWAYS conditions. And one of the only conditions that will make a woman turn a blind eye to rampant infidelity is high wealth/status.
 

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Values are personal.

For the women saying it is ok and for what reason, then you see their values.

I never see cheating as acceptable or ok, ever.

That is my value/principle/unwavering view.
 
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