"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Wow....women rationalizing a MAN cheating?

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Kate is a prime example of the modern young westernized female wanting it all and doing anything possible to have it. She feels entitled and deserving of everyone and everything she wants.

Jon is guilty of being that passive male that let's it happen.

He woke up and she doesn't like it.

They may have both done wrong things, so I'm not absolving either of them.

But I think it's clear from Kate's behavior who the big mean tyrant in the relationship is.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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By looking at this guy, his face expression and posture, I thought that he was a total wimp. But it seems like he is a smart guy. He knew how to take advantage of what "fame" is bringing to him. Wasnt he seen with yet another women beyond the teacher ?
I think I like this guy. I think the divorce will be a good fight.
 
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They may have both done wrong things, so I'm not absolving either of them.
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do you think any of them are looking for your aproval ?
 
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SXS said:
do you think any of them are looking for your aproval ?
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Seeing as how they don't know me they cannot get my approval one way or another.

However I am going to pass judgement on the situation and express my viewpoint as we all are free to do here regardless of them asking for my approval or not.

If you have a problem with that...get over it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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...Or does this give credence to the idea that women really didn't have that much of a problem with men having multiple wives as long as the MAN was 'worth' it??
 
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radiodude said:
...Or does this give credence to the idea that women really didn't have that much of a problem with men having multiple wives as long as the MAN was 'worth' it??
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Absofukkinglutely.

And it also gives credence to the idea that a woman can never really "love" you unconditionally. The are ALWAYS conditions. And one of the only conditions that will make a woman turn a blind eye to rampant infidelity is high wealth/status.
 
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Values are personal.

For the women saying it is ok and for what reason, then you see their values.

I never see cheating as acceptable or ok, ever.

That is my value/principle/unwavering view.
 
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