Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Wow, women ARE really sneaky!

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I met this chick. Made out and she gave me a bj. Today she added me on facebook and guess what? She's got a boyfriend.
A nice picture of her making out of him. At first it came as a bit of a shock since she seemed into me and didn't say A word about her seeing someone else, now I find it quite hilarious :D

So yes I will bang her the next time. I've just got to change my game plan since now that I know this information I've got nothing to lose! It's a in out gig. To bad, her loss I guess :)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Kal0051

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Why are you surprised that women aren't loyal? I thought this was common knowledge.
 

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Been in that position before, and the day after I found out she had a boyfriend, I looked him up on facebook and sent him a message telling him that he's girlfriend is cheating on him and apologizing as I had no idea. There's one thing that I won't stand for and that really rubs me the wrong way is girls going behind their boyfriends' backs and the guy continuing to treat a slvt like a princess. Call it Guy code, call it Brighty code, whatever, even to total strangers I feel like any guy shouldn't get played like that.
 

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I agree with Brighty. I'd wanna know if some other dude was d*cking my girl in any way, shape, or form. If he really didn't know, he's not to blame. BUT SHE IS!!!!!!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Well, unfortunitly cause of todays society. Women are ho's! Very few with some actuall standards.

I've been cheated on and like you.. fvcked girls who already had boyfriends. Play the game or get played. But, remember one thing. Dont not develop love feelings with this girl. Just have fun and bang her a few times. After that, get rid of her and find another one.
 

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Brighty said:
Been in that position before, and the day after I found out she had a boyfriend, I looked him up on facebook and sent him a message telling him that he's girlfriend is cheating on him and apologizing as I had no idea. There's one thing that I won't stand for and that really rubs me the wrong way is girls going behind their boyfriends' backs and the guy continuing to treat a slvt like a princess. Call it Guy code, call it Brighty code, whatever, even to total strangers I feel like any guy shouldn't get played like that.
I call it bullshait code because that's what it is.

You were paying her back. It was emotionally caused revenge. Anger does that. You weren't doing some Knights of the Round Table thing. You were punishing her.

Work on emotional control issues that cause you to take actions that defy common sense.
 

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When you're done with her remember to tell the guy about it, and send him a link of this website.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Proselytiser said:
Why tell the guy? That's just starting trouble you don't need. Fair chance he's gonna blame it on YOU rather than the cheating *****. Just leave it
Yep, he'll definitely blame you and forgive her. Or he'll come find you and attack you. Most guys are ****ed up these days when it comes to cheating hos.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Proselytiser said:
Why tell the guy? That's just starting trouble you don't need. Fair chance he's gonna blame it on YOU rather than the cheating *****. Just leave it

Well, when I told him he was understanding about it. I told him that I was sorry and that I had no idea. He didn't harbor any ill feelings towards me, and told me "thanks for the heads-up." I guess it depends on how you approach telling him.
 

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I would never tell him. I haven't been with a chick with a BF -- although I have had opportunities. Ethics get in the way. Maybe I'm still too young. I'm not sure.

I will say though about cheating women: they can never be (a) a successful girlfriend, (b) a successful wife. Maybe this trend has been broken in extreme situations of abuse, victimization, ect -- but in general principle it seems she will be likely to repeat her behavioral patterns.

I do wonder about the BF issue though -- seems women who value their faithfulness and their commitment wouldn't flirt again and again with a male. If I had truly a relationship that gratified me, that I didn't want to risk losing, why would I fvck around to begin with?

Emotional cheating (lusting after a relationship with another) is a real thing too I'd say, and can damage a relationship.
 

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First of all, the above poster (BuddaMind) = El Stud. I recognize his sentence structure.

Hi El STud.

Secondly, I would do the same thing as Mysterious Guy. I will pounce on ANY opportunity I get to punish a girl for being a slut or for being unfaithful. She deserved it.
 

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Darth said:
Secondly, I would do the same thing as Mysterious Guy. I will pounce on ANY opportunity I get to punish a girl for being a slut or for being unfaithful. She deserved it.

Looking back I think this is the way to go. Women today lack boundaries and need to be held accountable for their actions. A good dose of old fashioned shaming is in order. The lack of female accountability is in large part what's been driving the downfall of western society.
 

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Darth said:
Secondly, I would do the same thing as Mysterious Guy. I will pounce on ANY opportunity I get to punish a girl for being a slut or for being unfaithful. She deserved it.

I don't think you read what ThatMysteriousGuy said properly

he was not agreeing with what Brighty was considering doing ( telling the boyfriend about the girls cheating ways)

here it is again ;



ThatMysteriousGuy said:
I call it bullshait code because that's what it is.

You were paying her back. It was emotionally caused revenge. Anger does that. You weren't doing some Knights of the Round Table thing. You were punishing her.

Work on emotional control issues that cause you to take actions that defy common sense.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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