"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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wow what else can i do?

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wow so i like this one girl still, (other than my gf, trying to date both of them at the same time lol)

well she has a boyfriend still.. but i cant flirt iwth her any further than kissing her.. we hold hands when walking down hall way, she comes to my locker and hugs me every period, we walk in the halls together always, what the hell else am i supposed to do.. should i get more sexual with her like slap her on the ass sometimes or what lol,

i met her bf once and when she was with me she started making out with him once, but that was before the extreme flirting and stuff, so does anytone have any more tips to make this girl fall for me
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DUDE THIS GIRL WANTS YOU!!!!!!!

Yea slap her a$$$ or something, kiss her, get that pu$$y.

WHY WOULD YOU ASK WAHT TO DO, WHEN YOU KNOW SHE WANTS YOU?
 
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man its notl ike that, ive talked to her friends, they all say shes in love with her bf, theyve been going out for 1 yr and 4 months..
 
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ive been giving her too much attention, 2morrow i am deff going to ignore her
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by neonlimited
man its notl ike that, ive talked to her friends, they all say shes in love with her bf, theyve been going out for 1 yr and 4 months..
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Fuk that. My ex was "in love" with her bf and i fukked her. Hang out with her alone and keep it on the dl and youll be straight.
 
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If you can flirt with her and she isn't stopping you, obviously she doesn't care about her BF as much as her friends make it seem. Take it to next level, and make it quick so she doesn't change her mind.
 
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if she is flirting that much the relationship with her bf cant be good jst keep taking it further eventually sumthin will happen
 
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'Just keep taking it further'

Can anyone offer a bit more detail beyond that? Because it really doesn't say much.

I mean, you go for a kiss after going out with her or whatever (with flirting, EC and kino), and she reminds/informs you of the bf. Thats just taking it further right? But it obviously didn't work.
 
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