"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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wow what else can i do?

neonlimited

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wow so i like this one girl still, (other than my gf, trying to date both of them at the same time lol)

well she has a boyfriend still.. but i cant flirt iwth her any further than kissing her.. we hold hands when walking down hall way, she comes to my locker and hugs me every period, we walk in the halls together always, what the hell else am i supposed to do.. should i get more sexual with her like slap her on the ass sometimes or what lol,

i met her bf once and when she was with me she started making out with him once, but that was before the extreme flirting and stuff, so does anytone have any more tips to make this girl fall for me
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Anomalous

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DUDE THIS GIRL WANTS YOU!!!!!!!

Yea slap her a$$$ or something, kiss her, get that pu$$y.

WHY WOULD YOU ASK WAHT TO DO, WHEN YOU KNOW SHE WANTS YOU?
 

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man its notl ike that, ive talked to her friends, they all say shes in love with her bf, theyve been going out for 1 yr and 4 months..
 

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ive been giving her too much attention, 2morrow i am deff going to ignore her
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by neonlimited
man its notl ike that, ive talked to her friends, they all say shes in love with her bf, theyve been going out for 1 yr and 4 months..
Fuk that. My ex was "in love" with her bf and i fukked her. Hang out with her alone and keep it on the dl and youll be straight.
 

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If you can flirt with her and she isn't stopping you, obviously she doesn't care about her BF as much as her friends make it seem. Take it to next level, and make it quick so she doesn't change her mind.
 

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if she is flirting that much the relationship with her bf cant be good jst keep taking it further eventually sumthin will happen
 

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'Just keep taking it further'

Can anyone offer a bit more detail beyond that? Because it really doesn't say much.

I mean, you go for a kiss after going out with her or whatever (with flirting, EC and kino), and she reminds/informs you of the bf. Thats just taking it further right? But it obviously didn't work.
 
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