"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Wow, this might be the Chaddest of the Chads

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I remember this guy because the charismatic basketball coach at my university then tried to recruit him (@Chuck Taylor). He's got all the millimeters of bone where they should be, a jawline that could be used as a protractor, hunter eyes, etc. ... and oh yes, a 7'3" pro athlete that's not a twig. About the only thing I could count points against him is that his philtrum might be a little long. :rolleyes:

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Arvydas Sabonis is not the biggest seducer ever. Among NBA players, Sabonis did not seduce the most women. Guys like Wilt Chamberlain and Magic Johnson had sex with more women. A lot of NBA players put up solid notch counts.
 
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SW15 said:
Arvydas Sabonis is not the biggest seducer ever. Among NBA players, Sabonis did not seduce the most women. Guys like Wilt Chamberlain and Magic Johnson had sex with more women. A lot of NBA players put up solid notch counts.
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Chadness & experience in seducing are not the same. Some men don't care to sleep around, but they easily get the one good woman.

I think Magic got AIDS from doing bareback anaal with chicks. He might be the first famous person to have gotten it and lived,
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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