"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Wow, this might be the Chaddest of the Chads

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I remember this guy because the charismatic basketball coach at my university then tried to recruit him (@Chuck Taylor). He's got all the millimeters of bone where they should be, a jawline that could be used as a protractor, hunter eyes, etc. ... and oh yes, a 7'3" pro athlete that's not a twig. About the only thing I could count points against him is that his philtrum might be a little long. :rolleyes:

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Arvydas Sabonis is not the biggest seducer ever. Among NBA players, Sabonis did not seduce the most women. Guys like Wilt Chamberlain and Magic Johnson had sex with more women. A lot of NBA players put up solid notch counts.
 
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SW15 said:
Arvydas Sabonis is not the biggest seducer ever. Among NBA players, Sabonis did not seduce the most women. Guys like Wilt Chamberlain and Magic Johnson had sex with more women. A lot of NBA players put up solid notch counts.
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Chadness & experience in seducing are not the same. Some men don't care to sleep around, but they easily get the one good woman.

I think Magic got AIDS from doing bareback anaal with chicks. He might be the first famous person to have gotten it and lived,
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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