Same girl from here and here.
For those of you not interested in reading those threads, basically this girl is friends of friends and added me on Facebook (i.e. I've never met or even heard of her before). So we talk for a bit and hit it off. She lives like 30-40 mins away by my parents and where I grew up (I live in the city now, she lives in the burbs), but she had her 21st birthday celebration in Milwaukee and invited me along. So I went (this is where I first met her), we went on a brewery tour and met up with some more people at a restaurant, then went out to a bar. This night was pretty fun, but her ex who she was still hanging out with (and probably f*cking) hovered around her the whole time so I wasn't able to get any game in. Basically told her she owes me dinner because of that and some drama (see the thread).
So next time I see her was a mistake; only reason I went was because I thought it was this other restaurant that I've always wanted to go to. Anyways, so I fail miserably (see the last thread I made) and basically give up.
I don't hear from her in a while. She then started going out with her ex again. I've been pretty much no contact with her ever since. She then one day FB chat'd me saying "Hi I'm bored". Because I realized finally that she's basically been using me for attention I don't really want to talk to her again, so I don't respond. Over the next couple of weeks (this has been going on for 2 or 3 weeks) she has been sending me FB messages basically being like "Why aren't you talking to me?" "???" etc... In fact I just received one that says "sooo its really bothering me that you wont talk to me". I haven't responded to any and don't have any plans on doing so.
So I'm actually pretty amused by this. I'm kind of upset at myself for getting pleasure out of this, because I know that everything that's happened is due to me failing at gaming this girl, so I should take full responsibility, and my logical side acknowledges that. But I still can't help being pissed at her and deriving pleasure from this.
I guess what I wanted to know is, am I wrong for going no contact? What should I do from here? I'm at the point where I don't really care about this girl anymore, obviously, but I always love the input of this community.
For those of you not interested in reading those threads, basically this girl is friends of friends and added me on Facebook (i.e. I've never met or even heard of her before). So we talk for a bit and hit it off. She lives like 30-40 mins away by my parents and where I grew up (I live in the city now, she lives in the burbs), but she had her 21st birthday celebration in Milwaukee and invited me along. So I went (this is where I first met her), we went on a brewery tour and met up with some more people at a restaurant, then went out to a bar. This night was pretty fun, but her ex who she was still hanging out with (and probably f*cking) hovered around her the whole time so I wasn't able to get any game in. Basically told her she owes me dinner because of that and some drama (see the thread).
So next time I see her was a mistake; only reason I went was because I thought it was this other restaurant that I've always wanted to go to. Anyways, so I fail miserably (see the last thread I made) and basically give up.
I don't hear from her in a while. She then started going out with her ex again. I've been pretty much no contact with her ever since. She then one day FB chat'd me saying "Hi I'm bored". Because I realized finally that she's basically been using me for attention I don't really want to talk to her again, so I don't respond. Over the next couple of weeks (this has been going on for 2 or 3 weeks) she has been sending me FB messages basically being like "Why aren't you talking to me?" "???" etc... In fact I just received one that says "sooo its really bothering me that you wont talk to me". I haven't responded to any and don't have any plans on doing so.
So I'm actually pretty amused by this. I'm kind of upset at myself for getting pleasure out of this, because I know that everything that's happened is due to me failing at gaming this girl, so I should take full responsibility, and my logical side acknowledges that. But I still can't help being pissed at her and deriving pleasure from this.
I guess what I wanted to know is, am I wrong for going no contact? What should I do from here? I'm at the point where I don't really care about this girl anymore, obviously, but I always love the input of this community.