wow, this is really messed up

[jamescr73]

In this other thread you can get some background on my situation
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=114604

So last night i read one of her bulletins on myspace, and she says shes "head over heels in love with him". They hooked up 3 weeks ago? How is this even possible? Also, she says she wants to marry him? :crackup: Yeah.

So what i want to know is what the hell happened inside her brain, because i dont want it to happen with the next girl im with. How do you go from a 3.5 year relationship, then jump to someone else and 3 weeks later say your in love with him and want to marry him. It took her 7 months to tell me she loved me. Then i told her about a month after that.

What im thinking happened is that she fabricated love to fill the void in her heart that was caused by breaking up with me. Even though she says she fell out of love with me, the feelings were still there and she just directed those feelings toward someone else. Or am i way off base here?

 

[MacAvoy]

It doesn't matter. She may be filling a void and that sound plausible but after a long relationship, goin on the rebound, experiencing something new, its easy for feelings to intensify.

I don't know what your story is but I do know that she's not your g/f anymore and you need to stop obsessing with her. You need to move on with your life. Start exercising and taking care of yourself are the first steps. After a few weeks of exercising, you'll start to feel better, have dealt with the loss of someone you loved and be ready to move on.

Then get out there and start meeting new people, start approaching. Have fun and enjoy life. Why would you want to wallow in misery? Thinking about her is only going to make you sad, so focus on what you can control. Yourself. Make the most out of your life.

 

[jamescr73]

Ive been going to the gym 3-4 times a week for the past 4 months.

 

[Desdinova]

Why is she still one of your "myspace friends"? The relationship is finished, so cut her loose. You have no reason to keep her around.

Her new relationships are none of your business, just like your new ones are none of hers.

 

[Cod3r]

and 3 weeks later say your in love with him and want to marry him. It took her 7 months to tell me she loved me. Then i told her about a month after that.

I just made a thread on this, refer to it please... "This is tooo funny"


-Cod3r