"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Wow, that was the most awkward date ever

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This girl asks me to hang out with her, so we make plans. I'm expecting to bring her back to my apt and attack lol. She comes to the door and isn't even dressed up and I'm like wtf lol. I go up in her dorm and we watch tv. No alcohol and her roommate is in the room with us. She's also doing an essay that is due tomorrow and talking about how tired she is. She eventually says sorry I'm not this boring and I hope I don't fall asleep on you. I decide to leave right then and I'm not texting her lol. Sorry I'm kind of drunk.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I can't get friend zoned because I'm not ugly and it was the first time I met this girl.
 

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Dhoulmagus said:
This girl asks me to hang out with her, so we make plans. I'm expecting to bring her back to my apt and attack lol. She comes to the door and isn't even dressed up and I'm like wtf lol. I go up in her dorm and we watch tv. No alcohol and her roommate is in the room with us. She's also doing an essay that is due tomorrow and talking about how tired she is. She eventually says sorry I'm not this boring and I hope I don't fall asleep on you. I decide to leave right then and I'm not texting her lol. Sorry I'm kind of drunk.
As the man, you're always suppose to take initiative. You were suppose to tell her to get dressed and proceeded as normal. Remember it's never the chick's fault. The faulty things that women do is due to a flaw in your game.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Dhoulmagus said:
I can't get friend zoned because I'm not ugly and it was the first time I met this girl.
It's not about looks with women - it's about how you make them FEEL. If you make her feel that you're a fag, then she'll just string you along like a b1tch.

You need to look at all women the same way you'd look at a (much) younger sister. Would you take orders off her or take her too seriously ? would you follow her lead ? would you tolerate her sh1t ? NO, you'd see her as a child who needed YOUR guidance. ALWAYS STICK AT THIS MINDSET.
 

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That's outrageous. Why even bother with a bish like that?
 

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Dhoulmagus said:
I can't get friend zoned because I'm not ugly and it was the first time I met this girl.
Wrong. I'm pretty hot and I used to get friend zoned plenty in my younger years....basically because I was a *****.
 

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Shoulda told her to put some something on and take a walk around campus. Would have been a good opportunity for you to take charge and push some boundaries to get that hamster spinning.

Instead you followed her lead and looked like a lame being her study buddy.

There have been plenty of times where a girl is being lazy, boring, doesn't want to drink, etc and I push her a bit and end up having a great time and get laid.

The next morning is usually followed by text from her at work about how I'm trouble, a bad influence, and she wants to do it again.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dgwizdal said:
Shoulda told her to put some something on and take a walk around campus. Would have been a good opportunity for you to take charge and push some boundaries to get that hamster spinning.

Instead you followed her lead and looked like a lame being her study buddy.

There have been plenty of times where a girl is being lazy, boring, doesn't want to drink, etc and I push her a bit and end up having a great time and get laid.

The next morning is usually followed by text from her at work about how I'm trouble, a bad influence, and she wants to do it again.
I dont live in cali or florida. If that girl wants another date than she has to text me first, screw that
 
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