"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Wow, talk about luck!

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Alex DeLarge

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So the other night a few buddies and I hit the bars downtown. We were walking across the street to this club to catch a band playing. I spot this really cute girl, probably a HB8 outside.. I made eye contact with her and just opened with a "Hey how's it going".. Our conversation sprung up from there. We talked about music, art, all sorts of great things. She saw one of my tattoos and started touching my arm asking me where I got it done and things like that. So I decided to mirror her and kino back (she had a tattoo as well). We went inside and got a drink and she started touching my back.. We made more small talk and she eventually rejoined her little group.

Now I was about to approach her again, but I saw her with a guy who might have been her date. The guy was pretty big too haha.. Well, I wasn't about to get in between them and get thrown right across the venue and out the door, so I just stayed with my friends and we wound up having a great night anyways. Although I was kicking myself for not number closing when I had the opportunity.

Now today, just got outta work and I checked my FB page, and I have a message from the girl! She gave me her number and it turns out she's going to come watch me play an open mic night next week. Talk about lucky! haha.. Lesson learned, I will never fall through with a number close again! It's like striking out while looking at the ball.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Please explain to me where you got "lucky"

That is a successful APPROACH. You opened her as you should have and did well.

No luck involved.

GJ
 
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Well, I got lucky since she got in contact with me.. I didn't number close and figured "Aw, what the fvck.. Oh well I'll get 'em next time".. That's never happened to me before haha
 
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