"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Wow, read about this guy!

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I’m Desperate to Escape My Husband’s “Sexual Superpower”

We've negotiated this issue endlessly.
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My husband has a sexual superpower, and it is exhausting. He has no refractory period after having an orgasm. He prefers three-plus orgasms during a sexual encounter with me, ideally, five, but will settle for two. He jokes that if we have sex and he only has one orgasm, it doesn’t really count. We are in our 50s and have been married for 20 years.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Good for that guy. His sexual ability will serve him well in the next relationship. That woman claims the issue has been negotiated endlessly. There's no reason for the man to stay in that relationship unless he's allowed to have outside sex partners. She can't keep up with him anymore.

Does this 50 something guy have the ability to get younger women in extended relationships? After 35, men get judged more on their money and status, both by women close to their own age and by younger women.

If this guy is 55, he needs to be looking for women around 35-40 given his own sexual talents if he wants a longer term relationship.
 
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After 3 orgasms my dopamine receptors are completely shot and I have brain fog rest of the day. Amazing if this article is real.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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That article brings up the fact that some men can ejaculate 1-5 times per lay. I would think the consistent 1-3 timers are in the majority tho …
 
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That article brings up the fact that some men can ejaculate 1-5 times per lay. I would think the consistent 1-3 timers are in the majority tho …
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Some cannot get it up after the first shot and have to wait... Sucks to be that guy tho..
 
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Some cannot get it up after the first shot and have to wait... Sucks to be that guy tho..
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It most likely varies by individual, but one thing that is certain is that more ejaculations in a man’s life lower his risk of prostate cancer.
The prostate gland is a muscle, use it or lose it …
 
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After 3 orgasms my dopamine receptors are completely shot and I have brain fog rest of the day. Amazing if this article is real.
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I once had 8 orgasms within a 24-hour period in Amsterdam. :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: I was totally spent for the 2 remaining days I was there.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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