"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My husband has a sexual superpower, and it is exhausting. He has no refractory period after having an orgasm. He prefers three-plus orgasms during a sexual encounter with me, ideally, five, but will settle for two. He jokes that if we have sex and he only has one orgasm, it doesn’t really count. We are in our 50s and have been married for 20 years.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Good for that guy. His sexual ability will serve him well in the next relationship. That woman claims the issue has been negotiated endlessly. There's no reason for the man to stay in that relationship unless he's allowed to have outside sex partners. She can't keep up with him anymore.

Does this 50 something guy have the ability to get younger women in extended relationships? After 35, men get judged more on their money and status, both by women close to their own age and by younger women.

If this guy is 55, he needs to be looking for women around 35-40 given his own sexual talents if he wants a longer term relationship.
 

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After 3 orgasms my dopamine receptors are completely shot and I have brain fog rest of the day. Amazing if this article is real.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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That article brings up the fact that some men can ejaculate 1-5 times per lay. I would think the consistent 1-3 timers are in the majority tho …
 

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That article brings up the fact that some men can ejaculate 1-5 times per lay. I would think the consistent 1-3 timers are in the majority tho …
Some cannot get it up after the first shot and have to wait... Sucks to be that guy tho..
 

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Some cannot get it up after the first shot and have to wait... Sucks to be that guy tho..
It most likely varies by individual, but one thing that is certain is that more ejaculations in a man’s life lower his risk of prostate cancer.
The prostate gland is a muscle, use it or lose it …
 

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After 3 orgasms my dopamine receptors are completely shot and I have brain fog rest of the day. Amazing if this article is real.
I once had 8 orgasms within a 24-hour period in Amsterdam. :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: I was totally spent for the 2 remaining days I was there.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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