"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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A girl I was with moaned so other guy's name when we were hooking up. I dont know what to do. I asked and asked and she wouldnt tell me who it was, just said nobody.

I just want to find out who he is and break his jaw, I know it is not the right thing to do and its not the guys fualt but it will make me feel better
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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KneghtRyder said:
lol....I HOPE that **** never happens to me ~!
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haha me too my friend me too.

any ideas anyone?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Give her the cold shoulder till she is straight with you. She'l know whats up.

The question is:

is she just some fun - in which case who cares if she slipped - your not bothered anyway

or

do you see more in this girl, in which case do you want someone who keeps secrets, and likes some other guy.

If you were to mention another girls name in front of your girl, that my friend would be the start of world war 3, so why any different if she slips?

make that biatch pay.
 
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PectoralisMajor said:
Give her the cold shoulder till she is straight with you. She'l know whats up.

The question is:

is she just some fun - in which case who cares if she slipped - your not bothered anyway

or

do you see more in this girl, in which case do you want someone who keeps secrets, and likes some other guy.

If you were to mention another girls name in front of your girl, that my friend would be the start of world war 3, so why any different if she slips?

make that biatch pay.
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I agree with this post up until the 'make the biatch pay' part. Try to put your ego to the side for two minutes and handle it in a cool and calm way (she will be impressed by this).
 
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maybe i'm just the crazy one, but I don't really see why it matters. If she's had another guy on her mind and you just now hooked up with her then it makes sense that she might blurt out the wrong word.

If this were a girl you'd been dating for several months and it became obvious that she was fantasizing about someone else, then it might be a problem.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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/\it shows disrespect...if ur an ignorant simple bastard like me then u take offense to that lol
 
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agree with most of what's been said already.

if she's just a casual hook-up, yeah... i'd be a little pissed. then again, if it is a CASUAL hookup... then really it's no big deal, it's not like your marrying/dating the chick long term.

if so though, then obviously it's an issue that's not cool and you've got every right to be pissed off.
 
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