!!!WOW!!! Major help needed...This never happened to me before..

[aznxboi]

Sup fella,

Alright there this girl I been dating for almost 1 month. She got a REALLY expensive gift for my late birthday. I have no clue should I take it or give it back. I honestly have no use for it. I really want to give it back to her, so she can get me something else, but that seems pretty f up. She really wants me to be her girlfriend, I told her I am not ready for a relationship. This girl EXTREMELY likes me, like would do anything for me.

How can I give this back to her and not offend her? I actually want her to get me something that is useful than something this expensive. But, at the same time, I don't want her to doubt herself next time she picks something up for me. She also, included a gift receipt, but I don't want anything at that store. These are a pair of $280 sunglasses if your wondering. Please, help guys. I need to give this back to her asap, I can't think of anything to say right now.

 

[Dubh]

1st Thing 1st Dont Give It Back 2nd Just Keep Being U Apparently U Doing Something Right To Get That Nice Of A Gift Bedroom If U Know What I Mean Lol
I Have Had Females Give Me Money And Buy Me Stuff Just Enjoy It And Keep Being U My Man

 

[Dubh]

I Pay Females With Attention And Orgasims Straight Up Lol

 

[Warrior74]

I think you should totally be her girlfriend. LOL.


Listen. If you want it, keep it. Keeping it will make her happy. Don't be rude. There is no way I know of to give a gift back and not offend.

 

[mustfirstregister]

keep it and ebay it for 200. I can give you 100 for them if you want.

 

[f283000]

You don't give back a gift that somebody gave you that's bad manners.

sell it on craigslist, ebay or just keep it somewhere but don't give it back.

 

[aznxboi]

Guys, I understand. But, I don't want to spend $200+ on her when Christmas is around the corner or, when her birthday is comes around. I only dated her for 1 month ONLY!!! Do you guys know where I am coming from? I was planning to sell this. But, she will obviously ask me where it is one of these days.

This really sucks, how can I get her something that is $50 now? When Christmas arrives? lol, I can't believe this girl went all out. And, she doesn't even make that much money herself!

 

[Tesl]

Talk to her about it and tell her that. She'll tell you to keep it anyway so you can, but then at least her expectations will be lowered for later.

 

[SoldMySoul]

Guys, I understand. But, I don't want to spend $200+ on her when Christmas is around the corner or, when her birthday is comes around. I only dated her for 1 month ONLY!!! Do you guys know where I am coming from? I was planning to sell this. But, she will obviously ask me where it is one of these days.

This really sucks, how can I get her something that is $50 now? When Christmas arrives? lol, I can't believe this girl went all out. And, she doesn't even make that much money herself!

That is the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard! Here is what you do: If you are still with her around Christmas time, you tell her that you are watching your money and you both agree to a low amount (u cheapskate) and then it saves you from not buying an expensive gift to match hers.

Quit over thinking something as minute as this. So what, she spent some loot on your late birthday? Sounds like a kind thing to do and you want to sell or give the gift back..... Unless the sunglasses are hideous, wear the damn things and set xmas rules.

Some of us on here are quick to point out a broad's poor behavior, but people like you make good behavior seem not wanted. You do not have to spend $200 on Christmas. Be glad you have one that cares enough to send only the best!

 

[kingsam]

this girl is an idiot, she is the extreme female version of an AFC with oneitis