"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Read more...

!!!WOW!!! Major help needed...This never happened to me before..

A

aznxboi

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 12, 2004
Messages
89
Reaction score
0
Location
New York
Sup fella,

Alright there this girl I been dating for almost 1 month. She got a REALLY expensive gift for my late birthday. I have no clue should I take it or give it back. I honestly have no use for it. I really want to give it back to her, so she can get me something else, but that seems pretty f up. She really wants me to be her girlfriend, I told her I am not ready for a relationship. This girl EXTREMELY likes me, like would do anything for me.

How can I give this back to her and not offend her? I actually want her to get me something that is useful than something this expensive. But, at the same time, I don't want her to doubt herself next time she picks something up for me. She also, included a gift receipt, but I don't want anything at that store. These are a pair of $280 sunglasses if your wondering. Please, help guys. I need to give this back to her asap, I can't think of anything to say right now.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

D

Dubh

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 18, 2009
Messages
102
Reaction score
3
1st Thing 1st Dont Give It Back 2nd Just Keep Being U Apparently U Doing Something Right To Get That Nice Of A Gift Bedroom If U Know What I Mean Lol
I Have Had Females Give Me Money And Buy Me Stuff Just Enjoy It And Keep Being U My Man
 
D

Dubh

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 18, 2009
Messages
102
Reaction score
3
I Pay Females With Attention And Orgasims Straight Up Lol
 
W

Warrior74

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 25, 2008
Messages
5,106
Reaction score
230
I think you should totally be her girlfriend. LOL.


Listen. If you want it, keep it. Keeping it will make her happy. Don't be rude. There is no way I know of to give a gift back and not offend.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

A

aznxboi

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 12, 2004
Messages
89
Reaction score
0
Location
New York
Guys, I understand. But, I don't want to spend $200+ on her when Christmas is around the corner or, when her birthday is comes around. I only dated her for 1 month ONLY!!! Do you guys know where I am coming from? I was planning to sell this. But, she will obviously ask me where it is one of these days.

This really sucks, how can I get her something that is $50 now? When Christmas arrives? lol, I can't believe this girl went all out. And, she doesn't even make that much money herself!
 
T

Tesl

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Feb 21, 2010
Messages
281
Reaction score
16
Talk to her about it and tell her that. She'll tell you to keep it anyway so you can, but then at least her expectations will be lowered for later.
 
S

SoldMySoul

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 24, 2006
Messages
787
Reaction score
23
Location
Lousyiana
aznxboi said:
Guys, I understand. But, I don't want to spend $200+ on her when Christmas is around the corner or, when her birthday is comes around. I only dated her for 1 month ONLY!!! Do you guys know where I am coming from? I was planning to sell this. But, she will obviously ask me where it is one of these days.

This really sucks, how can I get her something that is $50 now? When Christmas arrives? lol, I can't believe this girl went all out. And, she doesn't even make that much money herself!
Click to expand...
That is the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard! Here is what you do: If you are still with her around Christmas time, you tell her that you are watching your money and you both agree to a low amount (u cheapskate) and then it saves you from not buying an expensive gift to match hers.

Quit over thinking something as minute as this. So what, she spent some loot on your late birthday? Sounds like a kind thing to do and you want to sell or give the gift back..... Unless the sunglasses are hideous, wear the damn things and set xmas rules.

Some of us on here are quick to point out a broad's poor behavior, but people like you make good behavior seem not wanted. You do not have to spend $200 on Christmas. Be glad you have one that cares enough to send only the best!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top