"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Wow, is this super high IL or some kind of rebound thing?

Adakkon

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Some girl who just broke up with her boyfriend 2 weeks ago. (he cheated on her)

We were doing some school function tonight and basically I spent like 5 hours talking to her. (I know, I'm amazed I managed to keep conversation going this long, it wasn't super DJ convo but it was decent and I kept the right attitude throughout)

We'd had maybe half an hours worth of conversation before tonight.

My birthday is this Friday. This girl invited me over Saturday (her parents are gone) to come over and even "stay the whole night, watching movies and stuff". (stay the whole night, her words) She also volunteered to cook me a steak (I mentioned I liked it when we were discussing food) and is going to burn me a cd (I mentioned I liked upbeat music).

This is almost like female afc behavior. She is an HB7 and I'm probably like a 6/10 so she is above me looks wise, and also seems to have more social status then me at the moment.

This is great because I went out tonight with the intentions of getting with one of the girls on our bus going to this school function, and I did. It seemed almost too easy though.

She talked about him cheating on her a bit, I guess trying to convey that she wanted someone to trust or something. I sympathized but tried not to dwell or really talk about it.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

oakraiderz2

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The day a girl gives me a cd, invites me over when her parents are gone, and COOKS ME A STEAK, i will f*ck her very good. I dont think she would do that much if it was rebound stuff i dont think she would do so much for you, she would just be incredibly easy.
 
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