"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Wow, is this super high IL or some kind of rebound thing?

Adakkon

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Some girl who just broke up with her boyfriend 2 weeks ago. (he cheated on her)

We were doing some school function tonight and basically I spent like 5 hours talking to her. (I know, I'm amazed I managed to keep conversation going this long, it wasn't super DJ convo but it was decent and I kept the right attitude throughout)

We'd had maybe half an hours worth of conversation before tonight.

My birthday is this Friday. This girl invited me over Saturday (her parents are gone) to come over and even "stay the whole night, watching movies and stuff". (stay the whole night, her words) She also volunteered to cook me a steak (I mentioned I liked it when we were discussing food) and is going to burn me a cd (I mentioned I liked upbeat music).

This is almost like female afc behavior. She is an HB7 and I'm probably like a 6/10 so she is above me looks wise, and also seems to have more social status then me at the moment.

This is great because I went out tonight with the intentions of getting with one of the girls on our bus going to this school function, and I did. It seemed almost too easy though.

She talked about him cheating on her a bit, I guess trying to convey that she wanted someone to trust or something. I sympathized but tried not to dwell or really talk about it.
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The day a girl gives me a cd, invites me over when her parents are gone, and COOKS ME A STEAK, i will f*ck her very good. I dont think she would do that much if it was rebound stuff i dont think she would do so much for you, she would just be incredibly easy.
 
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