"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I just found out a universal truth about women. Just because a female thinks you're cute/sexy/handsome/what have you, don't mean she likes you or feels attraction for you.:confused: How can you advance knowing that girls think you're are cute into them being attracted to you? Girls don't think logical rather emotional. Can us(men) be able to think in a women's perspective and know what they find attractive? Or is that basically a DJ? I know I just went beyond a few of you guys' heads haha:eek: :confused: :rolleyes: :cool:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I always thought once they think your cute its a wrap but IT"S NOT Guys. Will physical attraction ie looks change based on your personality?
 
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612_Da_Playa said:
I just found out a universal truth about women. Just because a female thinks you're cute/sexy/handsome/what have you, don't mean she likes you or feels attraction for you.:confused: How can you advance knowing that girls think you're are cute into them being attracted to you? Girls don't think logical rather emotional. Can us(men) be able to think in a women's perspective and know what they find attractive? Or is that basically a DJ? I know I just went beyond a few of you guys' heads haha:eek: :confused: :rolleyes: :cool:
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I seem to have this same problem. Girls will stare, but when I open my mouth, I'm a nervous and it all goes to hell. It almost seems like before I start talking they've created an 'image' of me in their head such that when I do start talking I'm not that smooth mother****er they thought I would be?

Anyway, yeah...my personality is dead. I agree I'm not half as fun as I used to be. I've relied too much on looks to the point where I've kept expecting the girls to initiate conversation...but it's not happening any more. That's probably definitely a big part of it, same with confidence.
 
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