"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I just found out a universal truth about women. Just because a female thinks you're cute/sexy/handsome/what have you, don't mean she likes you or feels attraction for you.:confused: How can you advance knowing that girls think you're are cute into them being attracted to you? Girls don't think logical rather emotional. Can us(men) be able to think in a women's perspective and know what they find attractive? Or is that basically a DJ? I know I just went beyond a few of you guys' heads haha:eek: :confused: :rolleyes: :cool:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I always thought once they think your cute its a wrap but IT"S NOT Guys. Will physical attraction ie looks change based on your personality?
 
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612_Da_Playa said:
I just found out a universal truth about women. Just because a female thinks you're cute/sexy/handsome/what have you, don't mean she likes you or feels attraction for you.:confused: How can you advance knowing that girls think you're are cute into them being attracted to you? Girls don't think logical rather emotional. Can us(men) be able to think in a women's perspective and know what they find attractive? Or is that basically a DJ? I know I just went beyond a few of you guys' heads haha:eek: :confused: :rolleyes: :cool:
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I seem to have this same problem. Girls will stare, but when I open my mouth, I'm a nervous and it all goes to hell. It almost seems like before I start talking they've created an 'image' of me in their head such that when I do start talking I'm not that smooth mother****er they thought I would be?

Anyway, yeah...my personality is dead. I agree I'm not half as fun as I used to be. I've relied too much on looks to the point where I've kept expecting the girls to initiate conversation...but it's not happening any more. That's probably definitely a big part of it, same with confidence.
 
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