"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I just found out a universal truth about women. Just because a female thinks you're cute/sexy/handsome/what have you, don't mean she likes you or feels attraction for you.:confused: How can you advance knowing that girls think you're are cute into them being attracted to you? Girls don't think logical rather emotional. Can us(men) be able to think in a women's perspective and know what they find attractive? Or is that basically a DJ? I know I just went beyond a few of you guys' heads haha:eek: :confused: :rolleyes: :cool:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I always thought once they think your cute its a wrap but IT"S NOT Guys. Will physical attraction ie looks change based on your personality?
 
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612_Da_Playa said:
I just found out a universal truth about women. Just because a female thinks you're cute/sexy/handsome/what have you, don't mean she likes you or feels attraction for you.:confused: How can you advance knowing that girls think you're are cute into them being attracted to you? Girls don't think logical rather emotional. Can us(men) be able to think in a women's perspective and know what they find attractive? Or is that basically a DJ? I know I just went beyond a few of you guys' heads haha:eek: :confused: :rolleyes: :cool:
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I seem to have this same problem. Girls will stare, but when I open my mouth, I'm a nervous and it all goes to hell. It almost seems like before I start talking they've created an 'image' of me in their head such that when I do start talking I'm not that smooth mother****er they thought I would be?

Anyway, yeah...my personality is dead. I agree I'm not half as fun as I used to be. I've relied too much on looks to the point where I've kept expecting the girls to initiate conversation...but it's not happening any more. That's probably definitely a big part of it, same with confidence.
 
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