"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Wow, I guess I do have a "passiveness" problem, LOL...

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She still wants you to love her and miss her.
It upsets her self esteem that you do not show that.
She will pull what ever emotional strings she can, to see if she can still get control over you.

These are immature reactions. When a baby is faced with an outsider, it has two survival inistincts.
It will try smiling and babbling. Equate this with exs trying to remain friends. When that doesn't work the baby will cry and raise holy hell. Equate that with her b*tch fit.

Deep down she needs you to love her, while she walks over you.
When being friends doesn't work, and being b*tchy doesn't work, her only cards left are sexuality & submission.
So hold out, past the games. There might be something useful there.

Also right now on a conscious level, she is trying to justify her actions. Girls feel emotions, take action, then look for logical reasons to back up their actions. She had a stupid affair. Now she is trying to create justifications for why it makes sense... IE you never loved me.
In the end she will know its a lie, and she f*cked up.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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