"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Wow, I guess I do have a "passiveness" problem, LOL...

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She still wants you to love her and miss her.
It upsets her self esteem that you do not show that.
She will pull what ever emotional strings she can, to see if she can still get control over you.

These are immature reactions. When a baby is faced with an outsider, it has two survival inistincts.
It will try smiling and babbling. Equate this with exs trying to remain friends. When that doesn't work the baby will cry and raise holy hell. Equate that with her b*tch fit.

Deep down she needs you to love her, while she walks over you.
When being friends doesn't work, and being b*tchy doesn't work, her only cards left are sexuality & submission.
So hold out, past the games. There might be something useful there.

Also right now on a conscious level, she is trying to justify her actions. Girls feel emotions, take action, then look for logical reasons to back up their actions. She had a stupid affair. Now she is trying to create justifications for why it makes sense... IE you never loved me.
In the end she will know its a lie, and she f*cked up.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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