"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Wow i dont get it.. This girl wont open up to me..

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I cold approached a girl i got her number .. made small talk (built a lot of rapport after talking about a TV show we both liked) Then when i asked her to go out to dinner with me and she's like What makes you think i'll go to dinner with a stranger i hardly even know you.. so im like yea you're right you dont know me so come to dinner with me and maybe you'll get to know me better and she's like no thanks i said alright good night bye.
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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Start with a small get-together. Coffe place or a bar, just for an hour or less. You're 1st date shouldn't really be a ,traditional date.
 
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Too much Rapport, not enough varied rapport, not enough Attract. Hello Friendzone, NEXT!

Talking is good, talking right is golden.

You said most of your conversation was over a TV show. Did that teach you anything about her, or did you focus on what the girl liked about the show? Remember, in conversation, the women will give you many different avenues to lead the conversation into if you wish to venture.
 

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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yep. You failed. You usually turn that one around by playing it down as her just not wanting an experience and that she's too closed up to follow though on her wants.
 
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Docs said:
Yep. You failed. You usually turn that one around by playing it down as her just not wanting an experience and that she's too closed up to follow though on her wants.
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That's good.... I like that. I will have to remeber that one.
 
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Rapport does not guarantee interest.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Rapport does not guarantee interest.
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Rapport and interest aren't really significant in the beginning when you first meet someone. Attraction is what's most important when you first meet someone. You've got to have the attraction first, then rapport and if both are there it should lead to actual interest.
 
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