"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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WOW, Can't believe I did this...

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CORVETTE06

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All my practice and reading articles on how to be a Don Juan, and I go and do THIS...

This girl I met (and thought was cute) called me for the first time after I sent her a text message.

However, I was out with other girls, so I hit the 'reject' button on my phone. She obviously knows I rejected the phone call (and knew I was at a party cuz I mentioned it in the text)

I sent her a happy new year text message the next night, but she did not respond.

Today I sent her a text message to see if she wanted to chill but she didn't write back again!

Do you think shes mad I pressed the 'reject' button!? What can I do to make this situation better!?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ducaro

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CORVETTE06 said:
All my practice and reading articles on how to be a Don Juan, and I go and do THIS...

This girl I met (and thought was cute) called me for the first time after I sent her a text message.

However, I was out with other girls, so I hit the 'reject' button on my phone. She obviously knows I rejected the phone call (and knew I was at a party cuz I mentioned it in the text)

I sent her a happy new year text message the next night, but she did not respond.

Today I sent her a text message to see if she wanted to chill but she didn't write back again!

Do you think shes mad I pressed the 'reject' button!? What can I do to make this situation better!?
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To make this situation better, you can only do one thing and that is - 'REJECT' THE SITUATION!:rolleyes:
 
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You are over reacting, which is normal... for an AFC!
Be a man and start acting like a DJ; wait for her to call. You have left too much room for her to become the prize. 2 text messages in a row without her replying - desperate much? Ignore her, and if she is yours, she will come back to you.

In short, when you want a woman they do not want you, but if you do not want them, suddenly they will make time for you, and they will in turn, want you. That's the game! I think you should re-read the bible and some e-books; you seem rusty!
 
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CORVETTE06 said:
All my practice and reading articles on how to be a Don Juan, and I go and do THIS...

This girl I met (and thought was cute) called me for the first time after I sent her a text message.

However, I was out with other girls, so I hit the 'reject' button on my phone. She obviously knows I rejected the phone call (and knew I was at a party cuz I mentioned it in the text)

I sent her a happy new year text message the next night, but she did not respond.

Today I sent her a text message to see if she wanted to chill but she didn't write back again!

Do you think shes mad I pressed the 'reject' button!? What can I do to make this situation better!?
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Call her, dont send text msg ...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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kinda cool how fast a girl's interest level goes down when you don't capitalize at the right time huh
 
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she's playing games man, no doubt about it, this similar situation happened to me recently.

when you rejected her call she felt dissed or played her. So in order for her to feel wanted and needed she built her a defense wall by not returnig your calls only receiving them. This builds her confidence, but she'll still be insecure.

The only way you can handel the situation is by not calling or texting her. I know its hard for you to do this when you think this girl is "fine as hell", but you have to this so she knows your a man and you are not sitting around waiting fo her.
 
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you should have called her back dude, or let her chill with you guys
 
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