"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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WOW, Can't believe I did this...

CORVETTE06

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All my practice and reading articles on how to be a Don Juan, and I go and do THIS...

This girl I met (and thought was cute) called me for the first time after I sent her a text message.

However, I was out with other girls, so I hit the 'reject' button on my phone. She obviously knows I rejected the phone call (and knew I was at a party cuz I mentioned it in the text)

I sent her a happy new year text message the next night, but she did not respond.

Today I sent her a text message to see if she wanted to chill but she didn't write back again!

Do you think shes mad I pressed the 'reject' button!? What can I do to make this situation better!?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ducaro

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CORVETTE06 said:
All my practice and reading articles on how to be a Don Juan, and I go and do THIS...

This girl I met (and thought was cute) called me for the first time after I sent her a text message.

However, I was out with other girls, so I hit the 'reject' button on my phone. She obviously knows I rejected the phone call (and knew I was at a party cuz I mentioned it in the text)

I sent her a happy new year text message the next night, but she did not respond.

Today I sent her a text message to see if she wanted to chill but she didn't write back again!

Do you think shes mad I pressed the 'reject' button!? What can I do to make this situation better!?
To make this situation better, you can only do one thing and that is - 'REJECT' THE SITUATION!:rolleyes:
 

Axcell

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You are over reacting, which is normal... for an AFC!
Be a man and start acting like a DJ; wait for her to call. You have left too much room for her to become the prize. 2 text messages in a row without her replying - desperate much? Ignore her, and if she is yours, she will come back to you.

In short, when you want a woman they do not want you, but if you do not want them, suddenly they will make time for you, and they will in turn, want you. That's the game! I think you should re-read the bible and some e-books; you seem rusty!
 

Rata Blanca

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CORVETTE06 said:
All my practice and reading articles on how to be a Don Juan, and I go and do THIS...

This girl I met (and thought was cute) called me for the first time after I sent her a text message.

However, I was out with other girls, so I hit the 'reject' button on my phone. She obviously knows I rejected the phone call (and knew I was at a party cuz I mentioned it in the text)

I sent her a happy new year text message the next night, but she did not respond.

Today I sent her a text message to see if she wanted to chill but she didn't write back again!

Do you think shes mad I pressed the 'reject' button!? What can I do to make this situation better!?
Call her, dont send text msg ...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ready123

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kinda cool how fast a girl's interest level goes down when you don't capitalize at the right time huh
 

coacj

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she's playing games man, no doubt about it, this similar situation happened to me recently.

when you rejected her call she felt dissed or played her. So in order for her to feel wanted and needed she built her a defense wall by not returnig your calls only receiving them. This builds her confidence, but she'll still be insecure.

The only way you can handel the situation is by not calling or texting her. I know its hard for you to do this when you think this girl is "fine as hell", but you have to this so she knows your a man and you are not sitting around waiting fo her.
 

HolyG

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you should have called her back dude, or let her chill with you guys
 
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