"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Wouldn't it be better to use ugly girls for practice?

Chamber36

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Yeah i think if you want to make real progress it's best to stick to the pretty girls. Once you've conquered a 10, your mind will be alot more manageable while talking to a 9.

i notice that if i talk to a 10 on a night, the rest of the interactions go alot more smoothly.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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MurdocIsGod

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Espi said:
She's just trying to get you to say the same things other men tell her...
Of course, that much is obvious, but to me I don't mind that they do that, I can overlook that. I am actually from the UK by the way but I don't think the dynamic is much different. I've simply found in my own experience that pretty girls are always receptive and kind towards me whilst average/ugly girls are often *****y and rude. Maybe just coincidence or luck, who knows, but that's just how I see it.
 

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DonGorgon said:
no cause they tend to be easier and dont allow you to improve your skills it would be like practicing to play the lakers by playing the raptors 100 times..

or more like playing the grade school basketball team every night...

sure, you're still playing, but you are not improving with your confidence in talking to hot women. You are just getting better at talking to Ug's and fat asses.

While it doesn't hurt to be social with everyone, you won't get better with talking to hot women with out talking to hot women. Just go for the dimes right away and you'll feel a lot better, trust me

you gotta get in the water if you want to swim. If you want to become an olympic swimmer getting in the kiddy pool isn't gonna help you
 
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