"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Wouldn't it be better to use ugly girls for practice?

Chamber36

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Yeah i think if you want to make real progress it's best to stick to the pretty girls. Once you've conquered a 10, your mind will be alot more manageable while talking to a 9.

i notice that if i talk to a 10 on a night, the rest of the interactions go alot more smoothly.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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MurdocIsGod

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Espi said:
She's just trying to get you to say the same things other men tell her...
Of course, that much is obvious, but to me I don't mind that they do that, I can overlook that. I am actually from the UK by the way but I don't think the dynamic is much different. I've simply found in my own experience that pretty girls are always receptive and kind towards me whilst average/ugly girls are often *****y and rude. Maybe just coincidence or luck, who knows, but that's just how I see it.
 

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DonGorgon said:
no cause they tend to be easier and dont allow you to improve your skills it would be like practicing to play the lakers by playing the raptors 100 times..

or more like playing the grade school basketball team every night...

sure, you're still playing, but you are not improving with your confidence in talking to hot women. You are just getting better at talking to Ug's and fat asses.

While it doesn't hurt to be social with everyone, you won't get better with talking to hot women with out talking to hot women. Just go for the dimes right away and you'll feel a lot better, trust me

you gotta get in the water if you want to swim. If you want to become an olympic swimmer getting in the kiddy pool isn't gonna help you
 
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