"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Would you take someone else's girlfriend?

Would you "steal" a girl who is taken if you liked her?

  • Yes, I believe in a free market system.

    Votes: 34 59.6%
  • No, it's unethical and out of bounds.

    Votes: 23 40.4%

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Would ya? Assuming the guy is not your friend ofcourse.

When I say taking another guys' gf, I don't mean cheating. I mean she breaks up with him and then goes out with you. And the intention is to have a relationship with her.

And that's how the cookie crumbles.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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sexy_kuta

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i wouldnt

i think thats disrespectful...

its like a mutal respect man.. what if someone takes ur girl

but if you choose your girl right then u sohuldnt worry about her leavin u for another man
 

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Well it depends

If I didn't like the guy and I wanted to piss him off then I would do it just for that.

If I actually wanted the girl as my girlfriend then that would be a bad idea because if she leaves or cheats on him for someone better, why wouldn't she do that to you?

If a girl has cheated once, there is a chance that she will do it again.
 

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If you set a bird free and it returns then it truely was your bird,if it doesnt return then....
I cant remember exactly how it goes.
 

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blinkwatt said:
If you set a bird free and it returns then it truely was your bird,if it doesnt return then....
I cant remember exactly how it goes.
lol
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Unless the the first person hates the girlfriend's bf, I doubt it.

Usually don't pick up girls that are taken. Focus on the girl, not her status. Wouldn't purposely go out to find people's girlfriend to hit on.
 

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sexy_kuta said:
i wouldnt

i think thats disrespectful...

its like a mutal respect man.. what if someone takes ur girl
What if..? It means you have a new man to study and learn from, you shake his hand (if opportunity arises of course) and you take note.

Your frame of mind is assbackwards.

No chicks are your property to get pissed about if a better prospect takes them away, theyre simply visitors who you allow to stay for a bit and have a hot drink.
 

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Any girl who is so easily stolen from a relationship (provided that it isn't a really ****ty one) isn't worth stealing.
 

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I would never stoop so low that I would steal a woman away from another guy, unless I didn't think he was treating her properly and I have done that, but when another guy is your friend you just shouldn't do that type of thing, I treat my woman very well, so if another guy stole her away from me he would have to pay a very high price at my hands for doing such a shocking thing, but I could never hurt the woman that I love or a guy who has been a friend, but it would be the case of me never having anything to do with him again, :confused:
 

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im kinda shocked at those results......were all supposed to be brothers man. Theres enough girls out there then to have to take one from another man.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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SnowBlind77 said:
im kinda shocked at those results......were all supposed to be brothers man. Theres enough girls out there then to have to take one from another man.
It's not about trying to steal another's girl. If you're doing it for the sole purpose of stealing, then yes it's a bad thing. But if you like a girl, then you simply present yourself to her and see if there's a connection, and it's unfortunate that she is taken.

It's like if a consumer walks into a car dealership and she sees only one car, she is stuck with it. No choices available. What taking another's gf means is you are showing her that there are other cars available and that she can choose you. Remember, it takes two to tango, and often the desired girls are taken.
 

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You can't steal a person. Apart from maybe Jimmy Hoffa.

Lots of women and ALL the hotties have boyfriends. Many, many women are serial monogamists who aren't single for more than a week, even if their bfs are just there to put up shelves and stop the woman from looking unpopular.

If she likes you she will go from his branch to yours, and you should avoid the ones willing to cheat before they swap, but if you next any woman with a putative boyfriend you will have a very small pool of women to choose from.
 

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I really don't give a crap...

There are two kinds of people on the planet...

-People i know and like
-everyone else

Everyone else being either a chick i want or some guy i really don't care about.

Now if it were the GF of a friend, that's another story. I don't go after a friends gf OR ex-gf for that matter... if i want to go after a friends ex, even if just for a screw, i'll make sure he's cool with that. Other than that, it's all fair game.
 

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I would and ive done it few times. And remember one thing. Girl wont let anybody to be stolen if she doesnt want to. I had sex with lots of women in relatios. Thats why i dont trust women at all.
 

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I can not agree more with Socialreject and MightyMate. That is exactly how I feel.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Im having this issue right now.
The girl has a boyfriend who is nice too her but a total bore to be around. Maby in private he is better I dono but even when he likes bikes and I started talkin to him about them (the one time he joined us to have some fun which he sat out mostly). he talked for a few minutes then just went cold again. Im not acting like im trying to get her from him but he seams to be doing the work for himself. I am fun and interesting so she likes to hand out with me. I always invite the guy but he always makes up some lame excuse. Im not wanting to break this up but if she figures out that she has a unstable rock for a BF... Its her choice right?
 

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Nighthawk said:
You can't steal a person. Apart from maybe Jimmy Hoffa.

Lots of women and ALL the hotties have boyfriends. Many, many women are serial monogamists who aren't single for more than a week, even if their bfs are just there to put up shelves and stop the woman from looking unpopular.

If she likes you she will go from his branch to yours, and you should avoid the ones willing to cheat before they swap, but if you next any woman with a putative boyfriend you will have a very small pool of women to choose from.
Exactly.....

You guys are completely missing the point. There's no "stealing a girl from a boyfriend". Or a real boyfriend anyway. Like another poster said, every girl has a boyfriend. If she can be stolen away, she doesn't have a real relationship. No one could steal my gf right now.
 

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If she and I had somehow developed deep feelings for eachother I can honestly say I'd steal that chick from any guy even a best friend.

A chick like that who will even entertain the ability for you to get close to her like that wasn't really happy in her current relationship anyway.
 
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I wouldn't do it now. I've have done it and have found that the guy can keep her cause in the end there's something wrong with her. And a real woman would stick by her man anyway. I don't need another girl who's out for the next good time.

Plus my theory is if she wants me she'll have to prove it. If she she can't, then NEXT!

ADKdj
 

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If I know the guy and he is cool, then NO WAY.

But if I don't, definitely. After all, having a boyfriend is hers problem not mine. LOL.

But OF COURSE this only apply to ONS/fvck buddies. I suppose no one is considering LTRs with girls like this.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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