"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Would you sleep with a girl if you knew she had genital herpes?

Pandora

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You should had pressed charges. I would had. 20 + years ago other options were allowed; not anymore sadly.
Yeh i wasnt thinking about pressing charges. I am no lawyer but I think they would have to prove 2 things. They would have to PROVE she knew ( which she did), and they would have to PROVE that she intentionally wanted to spread it ( which she did). I would have gotten no money out of it. She had an adorable kid. That kid would have ended up suffering more than it already did. I know you are being hyperbolic though. But you are correct bro. There should be some ramifications for this behavior. Maybe a civil suit and not a criminal one?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yeh i wasnt thinking about pressing charges. I am no lawyer but I think they would have to prove 2 things. They would have to PROVE she knew ( which she did), and they would have to PROVE that she intentionally wanted to spread it ( which she did). I would have gotten no money out of it. She had an adorable kid. That kid would have ended up suffering more than it already did. I know you are being hyperbolic though. But you are correct bro. There should be some ramifications for this behavior. Maybe a civil suit and not a criminal one?
if that person would have been a white guy, for sure you would have been charged with “ spreading dieses “ or something lol
 

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herpes is a very common virus more far more common than "covid" anyway

people can have it and never develop symptoms or they can have it and have constant outbreaks

unless you want to medically screen every girl you have sexual relations with i don't really see how you can mitigate the risk

its not deadly just one of those things unfortunately

we will all be dead one day anyway try not to sweat over it .....
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yeh i wasnt thinking about pressing charges. I am no lawyer but I think they would have to prove 2 things. They would have to PROVE she knew ( which she did), and they would have to PROVE that she intentionally wanted to spread it ( which she did). I would have gotten no money out of it. She had an adorable kid. That kid would have ended up suffering more than it already did. I know you are being hyperbolic though. But you are correct bro. There should be some ramifications for this behavior. Maybe a civil suit and not a criminal one?
Prob. statute of limitations has past. I would have regardless of her kid or not. IF she gave you a virus knowingly, and you can somewhat prove it, then you'd have some sort of case; maybe. Most don't because of the social stigma. For the people here who say it's not a big deal, I beg to differ. It can cause a lot of complications and prevent us, the medical staff, the ability to administer certain drugs.
 

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Listen to @RickTheToad on this one fellas.... you don't want to fuuck around at all with a woman who you know has HSV 2.

Would you fire a gun pointed to your head knowing that it has a fully loaded clip or round?
 

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Listen to @RickTheToad on this one fellas.... you don't want to fuuck around at all with a woman who you know has HSV 2.

Would you fire a gun pointed to your head knowing that it has a fully loaded clip or round?
As dudes get older, one hopes they use their brain instead of their penis in terms of selecting a mate. I have my doubts these days though..
 

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If you were dating a girl and she told you that she had genital herpes, would you still sleep with her? I ask this because I read on other internet forums that some people were saying genital herpes isn't that bad to get. Are they right?
I'd probably just go home and shoot myself in the head with a staple gun instead.
 

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Amazing this is even a question..no shag is worth your health,none.Even a Pamela Andersson at her peak.Nothing is worth an orgasm that lasts seconds.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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If you were dating a girl and she told you that she had genital herpes, would you still sleep with her? I ask this because I read on other internet forums that some people were saying genital herpes isn't that bad to get. Are they right?
Here's the thing: Most men will answer this question from a rational, non emotional frame of mind (hopefully) and say of course not, logically I would not.

I wonder how many men would answer this question caught up in the heat of the moment, not in control of their desires , being led by the smaller head........would answer this question with their actions........in an irrational / emotional state.

A man who is not in control of his desires is not free.

On another note, there are many FREAKS in the homosexual FREAK SHOW who KNOWINGLY CONTRACT HIV. There's even a name given to it : BUGCHASING


this is further proof that the majority in the FREAK SHOW (lgbt or whatever) are not "genuine homosexuals" but simply FREAKS (or "pleasure seekers".....pursuing "excitement" and never fulfilled. the never ending pursuit of the next taboo act.

These FREAKS (along with drug addicts, feminists, blm) are a scourge on society.
 
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