My question here is, would you share some of your red-pill knowledge with a plate (like for example how a man should behave in certain situations) in order to impress her, or you should just keep your mouth shut about these things at all times?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.