MatureDJ
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Would you seriously date (or marry) one of these hotties?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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there are a few on that list i would seriously considerMatureDJ said:
most likely no. but i wouldn't rule it out. depending on what they have done. truth be told just about everyone has done some **** that could end them up in jail including myself. I 'm not quick to judge. With that said, usually the people who get caught get caught for a reason. Also some things are automatic tosses. burglary, grand larceny, killing someone accidental or not i don't care you gots to go.
you go to any NA/AA meeting and half the girls there have records and some of them are smoking. The little red head that i kinda befriended and who made it clear to me she anted me to date her but i had to cut lose beucase my now wife really didn't care for the attention she required me to give her, she had a record for i want to say drug paraphernalia, did i want to say a year and a half stint for it. but she got out and seriously changed her life, had a degree, and not a bull **** degree a real one lol, rock sciences or some **** like that the girl who studies rocks and **** whatever that is called smart as fvck. under difference circumstances i would have dated her. she had her **** together and had a killer body, very pretty feet lol, and was a red head.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
whats most interesting is those chicks think that despite their records that they are in a position to MAKE DEMANDS on the type of men they get.
then again with AFCism running rampant in the world they probably can find a lonely, wealthy real estate or computer dude to provision them within a few months of their release.
then again some of these biatches are in for life...so you could take the george costanza route and just visit them on the inside and keep the relationship confined so to speak
then again with AFCism running rampant in the world they probably can find a lonely, wealthy real estate or computer dude to provision them within a few months of their release.
then again some of these biatches are in for life...so you could take the george costanza route and just visit them on the inside and keep the relationship confined so to speak
Wouldn't be interested in any of these women for LTR/marriage without some serious qualification. They're attractive physically, but what do they have to offer outside of what God/Nature/Evolution handed them for free? Probably not much hence the prison terms.
What I found most interesting is that even though they are incarcerated for pretty heinous crimes (murder, DUI) they refused to explain what makes them a good catch. They just talked about their "types" of men and what men can do for them offering nothing in exchange. This kind of woman repulses me.
Pump and dump, nothing else...and I certainly wouldn't let them into my house. Who knows what would be missing when they left?
What I found most interesting is that even though they are incarcerated for pretty heinous crimes (murder, DUI) they refused to explain what makes them a good catch. They just talked about their "types" of men and what men can do for them offering nothing in exchange. This kind of woman repulses me.
Pump and dump, nothing else...and I certainly wouldn't let them into my house. Who knows what would be missing when they left?
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Prison Dating Site- Where AFC's go to throw up the white flag.
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no, definetely NO
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Hell there are several chicks on POF who've been incarcerated before and or have pending court cases. I've spoken in email previously to a number of them. No joke. Once (if ever) released the list you posted will be the newest members of the 'world's best free dating site'. I'm not joking either.
I see an advantage over dating in prison then on the outside:
First you always know where they are, so they easily can be reached.
Second, the date itself would be really cheap because you can only hang out in the courtyard or the visiting area that's it.
If things go well then you get some conjugal visit sex, just schedule an appointment and the likelyhood she will flake remains low unless she shank's someone in the court yard.
She can't check up on you on the outside, so you can still date whomever you want and she will always be available unless she turns lesbo.
and if she escapes then you can have fugitive sex! apparently its the best kind of sex there is.
Of course once she gets freed from prison, you better dump her because who really wants to date an ex-con?!
First you always know where they are, so they easily can be reached.
Second, the date itself would be really cheap because you can only hang out in the courtyard or the visiting area that's it.
If things go well then you get some conjugal visit sex, just schedule an appointment and the likelyhood she will flake remains low unless she shank's someone in the court yard.
She can't check up on you on the outside, so you can still date whomever you want and she will always be available unless she turns lesbo.
and if she escapes then you can have fugitive sex! apparently its the best kind of sex there is.
Of course once she gets freed from prison, you better dump her because who really wants to date an ex-con?!
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.