"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Would you really want a virgin??
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
edger
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I personally don't care though if a chick is a virgin or not.
Z Man
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YES!!
:yes:
MacAvoy
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Rollo Tomassi
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
frivolousz21
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DoctorLW said:
agree 100 percent
speed dawg
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Virgins tend to be a little wacky. I mean, face it, anyone who is capable of having sex has sex in 2008. Our secretary at my company hasn't fukked but one person in 5 years. But I could go fukk her right now if I wanted. It's not that she's an upstanding virgin, it's because the type guys she likes are all AFC's and there is no one for her to fukk.
LoneSilver
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LoneSilver
You mean to marry? I would never marry a virgin. I would certainly marry a girl that's only had sex with me (several times).Adam007 said:
Only a fool would marry a woman that he's not had sex with prior to doing so. Yes, I realize I just called a lot of people fools. In an equilivant sense, I think its foolish to drive a car for the first time after you've paid for it.
Now, I'm not against dating women that claim they'll only have sex after marriage. I always smile inward when I hear this thinking "that's because you haven't dated me, yet". Sure, I've had some that resisted all of my coercion. For these instances, see the threads which discuss asexual women and what to do with them.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
JohnnyIrish
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1) PIA **** teases (usually have tons of baggage and rules for havng sex)
2) Are totally clueless sex wise
Thats why I always thought those crazy extrimists who get 70 some odd virgins promised them when they die are getting a raw deal.
F that.. give me well trained std free wh0res over 70 virgins any day!
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A virgin's mind of conviction is a correct and natural mindset to have as a woman who is in sync with her femininity!! She was not made to be pumped with sperm by different men for obvious reasons. One reason is that her vagina is made to be a reservoir for sperm to create offspring - different penises in her will will eventually bring disease and counteract the purpose of her vagina which brings forth life!!! The second reason is that if you have different pimps pumping her then you will never know who the father is - and men, in general, do not want to take care of someone else's seed!! Look outside of your window and you'll see the two reasons that I just stated being realized!! So you have diseased woman with children and no father in the household!
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I am currently 'dating' a girl who I am 99.9999% sure is a virgin. I use 'dating' in quotes because nothing even remotely sexual has happened. So i guess we're really just hanging out, but the interest is there.
At first I was kind of intrigued; I have never done the virgin thing and the allure of sexual purity was novel, but now I'm not so sure.
Do I really want to take a girl's virginity? It's not like i can just hook up with her under a cavalier premise...nothing is going to happen unless I give her a serious LTR commitment, which I dont want at this point. So i basically answered my own question, but---
I would like to hear some experiences from those who have been with a virgin. Good, bad, crazy, etc
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Women never go that long without sex(attractive women of course). A hot woman will go without sex until she finds a player/DJ, but it's usually not long at all before she runs into one.LoneSilver said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Maxtro
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It doesn't really matter though because finding a virgin in the area that I live in will be very difficult. I'd either have to start hitting on Jr. High age girls or find some religious fanatic who took a chastity vow and won't have sex till she is married. Obviously both options are unacceptable.
Colossus
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But on the other hand, how much sexual chemistry can you have with a woman who has never had sex?
I just cant see it being a fun situation. She would be incredibly nervous, tense, and clueless as to how to reciprocate. Then comes the inevitable emotional attachment. I suppose after she became comfortable with sex you could 'mold' her to your liking (in terms of technique, etc.).
It just seems like chore to me. I would have to be totally impressed and have awesome personal chemistry with her to open that door.
MacAvoy
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This is the appeal to me. Now I've never wasted any time chasing a virgin, but I'm at the point in my life where I've accomplished more sexually than I fantasized about when I was younger. As a result, now I'm constantly looking for a challenge, or something new that I haven't done before.Colossus said:
So thats my fascination with a virgin.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.