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Would you really want a virgin??

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I'm cool with the virgin thing, but if she's non-sexually active in every other area, that to me is a MEGA turn-off. I don't care how hot she is, I wouldn't mess around with her. "Prudes" don't do it for me.

I personally don't care though if a chick is a virgin or not.
 

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Why don't you just start a thread titled "Last Man Standing, please post in my thread here" ?
 

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I've had my fair share of virgins and they are not worth it. NOT WORTH IT.

Never again.
 

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In my experience the best LTR's are the girls who have made their rounds, have some life and relationship experience. In this day and age sexual experience comes with that. Too often girls who haven't had their fill and have alot of curiosity cheat the fastest, and alot of times those are alot younger.

Virgins tend to be a little wacky. I mean, face it, anyone who is capable of having sex has sex in 2008. Our secretary at my company hasn't fukked but one person in 5 years. But I could go fukk her right now if I wanted. It's not that she's an upstanding virgin, it's because the type guys she likes are all AFC's and there is no one for her to fukk.
 

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Hell I know dudes that are in their 40's and have not had sex in 20 years and always thought women are the ones that are supposed to go that long without sex. When I questioned this one friend about it he just said he never thought much about it over the years but offen had errection problems that effected his confidence with women but now is glad he doesn't have any aids or other sexually contacted issues but some day he says he'll get it on with the right kind of woman.

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Adam007 said:
Hi Guys...

How many of you really want a virgin??
You mean to marry? I would never marry a virgin. I would certainly marry a girl that's only had sex with me (several times).

Only a fool would marry a woman that he's not had sex with prior to doing so. Yes, I realize I just called a lot of people fools. In an equilivant sense, I think its foolish to drive a car for the first time after you've paid for it.

Now, I'm not against dating women that claim they'll only have sex after marriage. I always smile inward when I hear this thinking "that's because you haven't dated me, yet". Sure, I've had some that resisted all of my coercion. For these instances, see the threads which discuss asexual women and what to do with them.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Hell no for two reasons..
1) PIA **** teases (usually have tons of baggage and rules for havng sex)
2) Are totally clueless sex wise

Thats why I always thought those crazy extrimists who get 70 some odd virgins promised them when they die are getting a raw deal. :p

F that.. give me well trained std free wh0res over 70 virgins any day!
 
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The question is, "Want her for what purpose?". Pimps don't like virgins for obvious reasons...butttt, all hors were once virgins!! So is she truly a virgin- one who has conviction to remain pure and sexually untouched? Or, is it that she has yet to meet the "right" man to hor with?

A virgin's mind of conviction is a correct and natural mindset to have as a woman who is in sync with her femininity!! She was not made to be pumped with sperm by different men for obvious reasons. One reason is that her vagina is made to be a reservoir for sperm to create offspring - different penises in her will will eventually bring disease and counteract the purpose of her vagina which brings forth life!!! The second reason is that if you have different pimps pumping her then you will never know who the father is - and men, in general, do not want to take care of someone else's seed!! Look outside of your window and you'll see the two reasons that I just stated being realized!! So you have diseased woman with children and no father in the household!
 

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Sex with a virgin is a disadvantage.

A LTR with a virgin could be dangerous. If she has never experienced other than you, she will always wonder.
 

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Great timing with this thread... I almost started one of the same.

I am currently 'dating' a girl who I am 99.9999% sure is a virgin. I use 'dating' in quotes because nothing even remotely sexual has happened. So i guess we're really just hanging out, but the interest is there.

At first I was kind of intrigued; I have never done the virgin thing and the allure of sexual purity was novel, but now I'm not so sure.

Do I really want to take a girl's virginity? It's not like i can just hook up with her under a cavalier premise...nothing is going to happen unless I give her a serious LTR commitment, which I dont want at this point. So i basically answered my own question, but---

I would like to hear some experiences from those who have been with a virgin. Good, bad, crazy, etc
 

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LoneSilver said:
and always thought women are the ones that are supposed to go that long without sex.
Women never go that long without sex(attractive women of course). A hot woman will go without sex until she finds a player/DJ, but it's usually not long at all before she runs into one.
 

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I'm not sure. It could both be good and bad. The bad part is that she probably would not be as good as a woman who's had some experience. The good part is that she wouldn't have a lot of experience and hence she shouldn't have high expectations. I've only had a very small number of sexual experiences in my life and I'm way behind the level that somebody my age should be at. She wouldn't know that I suck and we could both learn together.

It doesn't really matter though because finding a virgin in the area that I live in will be very difficult. I'd either have to start hitting on Jr. High age girls or find some religious fanatic who took a chastity vow and won't have sex till she is married. Obviously both options are unacceptable.
 

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I could see both sides to it.

But on the other hand, how much sexual chemistry can you have with a woman who has never had sex?

I just cant see it being a fun situation. She would be incredibly nervous, tense, and clueless as to how to reciprocate. Then comes the inevitable emotional attachment. I suppose after she became comfortable with sex you could 'mold' her to your liking (in terms of technique, etc.).

It just seems like chore to me. I would have to be totally impressed and have awesome personal chemistry with her to open that door.
 

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Colossus said:
It just seems like chore to me. I would have to be totally impressed and have awesome personal chemistry with her to open that door.
This is the appeal to me. Now I've never wasted any time chasing a virgin, but I'm at the point in my life where I've accomplished more sexually than I fantasized about when I was younger. As a result, now I'm constantly looking for a challenge, or something new that I haven't done before.

So thats my fascination with a virgin.
 

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