"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Would you rather work a normal job or taking care of a normal child?

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normal = e.g. child/job not hated by you, not loved, not dreamjob, but not painful


seems women often dont have to work and just sit at home with bobo nurturing the children while men have to work. i wonder who has it better

personally i hate children but i hate jobs too soooo hmm
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Men have to conquer the world. If that was women’s role, then they would have been give Strength and nobility. Women are purely reactive. They are spoils of victory.

Why do you think the female lion falls in love with the male lion that kills the original male lion of the tribe? it’s her natural reaction.

It’s the masculine-feminine dynamic.
yea but im not fugging with lions or other animals
 

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You can't ignore biology. Men are cannot care for children like a mother can because men can't nurse children. It's a woman's job by default.

I know childcare is way more exhausting than a regular job, especially for a woman who has to feed it every 2 hours. I don't disparage stay at home moms, I respect them.

I'm of the firm opinion that the child should have a parent at home until he's ready to go to school. Assuming his parents actually love him of course.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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