Handsome fat because it could never be permanent. You would always be able to drop pounds.IF YOU had to pick between the two
Ugly sexy = butter face for men (permanent)
Handsome fat= nice chad face, fat body (permanent)
That guy is the best chad that has ever existed (according to him) so its impossible for him to being an incel, unless his lying.The ugly but sexy could also lead to a gymcel scenario. Also the lack of social confidence if someone gymmaxxed would also result in off putting vibes. You still have to approach girls and do not believe its a night and day experience in and of itself unless you have other things going for you. This could be the reason why someone like @sangheilios is not seeing results.