"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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would you pursue it?

john_1234

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at the check out counter today, this beautiful girl was flirting w/ me. she said playfully w/ a smile, "why don't you buy those m&m's right there. there only two for a $1.00." we started shooting the **** and i find out, surprisingly, that she was only seventeen years old. she seriously looked like she was in her early twenties. anyways, i didn't ask for her #; but there was a connection and i'm sure she would have given it to me. she was only seventeen, not of age :p but man, it was very tempting because she was hot. would you guys have done the same?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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SoCalMike

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john_1234 said:
at the check out counter today, this beautiful girl was flirting w/ me. she said playfully w/ a smile, "why don't you buy those m&m's right there. there only two for a $1.00." we started shooting the **** and i find out, surprisingly, that she was only seventeen years old. she seriously looked like she was in her early twenties. anyways, i didn't ask for her #; but there was a connection and i'm sure she would have given it to me. she was only seventeen, not of age :p but man, it was very tempting because she was hot. would you guys have done the same?
only question is when does she turn 18? get the number... date until she's legal then bang away.
 

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And just when I thought she was
comin' to my door
She whispered sweet and brought me
to the floor, she said
I'm only seventeen, but
I'll show you love like you've never seen
She's only seventeen, daddy says she's too young,
but she's old enough for me!
 
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