"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Would you of done it?

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Today at lunch we had this dunk tank in the inner court. They had teachers sit on the plank. When I saw the tank I wanted to get up there and do it.

I went and ate some lunch and came back and asked if I could get up there and go for it. The person in charge said I had to have a waiver from my parents. I said ok whatever.

Thats when everyone started chanting my name, Jerry Jerry Jerry! They all wanted me to go for it anyway. So, ignorantly, I did. A kid dunked me. A few seconds later the person in-charge came over and said to go to his office. I was then sent home for the day and got saturday school. I also got a lecture from my mother saying how I'm acting like a freshman when I am a senior. That I need to grow up and think about things before I do them and such.

Question is, would you guys of went for it?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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yes
 
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yea although i dont know what a dunking tank is
 
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A dunking tank is where someone sits on a platform over a big bucket of water while people throw balls at targets. When someone hits the target, the platform bends and you fall into the water.
 
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Yea that's what I thought but what was it doin in a cafeteria?:confused:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hell ya i would have

**** AUTHORITY!!! REBEL!!!!

HAIL HITLER! I MEAN REBEL!!!!
 
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I would have done it...OHH NO NOT SATURDAY SCHOOL.

And Vincent it's not **** authority, it's learn to play authority for all it's worth.
 
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LOL! It was in the Inner court, where the grass field is (atleast at my school).

I'm not worried about the Saturday school Best Friends? NAY, I just wanted to know if you guys would of went for it too.

It was hella fun going against what the guy in charge said, I've never really rebelled that much before...heh.
 
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hell yeah you were right to do it. You wanted to do something and you did it. Where or not I would have done it(had the balls to do it) is a different story :D
 
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I would have done it if people were chanting my name out because i know it would make my name even more known among the general school area.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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