sodbuster
Master Don Juan
Not interested-I wouldn't be able to hit bottom or touch the sides. I've talked to enough dancers to know how screwed up they are. don't even want to know how messed up a porn star is
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Would you mind dating or having a girlfriend who is a pornstar?
- Thread starter addicted2money
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
MaTuA
Don Juan
As a former bouncer at an area strip club, I feel it is my duty to inform DJ's and AFC about dating a porn star/stripper. AFC's may understand, DJ's will be reawakened. Consider this a crash course in pimpology from Professor Matua. *Bell Rings* Class is in session...
The lesson(s) I'm going to give to you today men: Break a hoe tacitics101/Bvtch beter have my money.:trouble:
1.If you choose to get involved with a stripper/porn star then you must lead the "arrangement" from day one. Never let a trix lead you where you need not be. Period. Assert this. Very Vital.
2.Be On Call. Not Available. People will misinterpret what I'm saying because this is not a singular statement. This is a dual-statement. I repeat, this is a dual statement. Just because you date her/fvck her dosent mean you have to take care of her. Cater to her. She's a big girl, playing big boy games, so make sure to be that from day one.
3.Do watch how she tends to interact with her customers/co-workers. Sometimes, you do need to see what she does. Occasionally, pop in (if possible)(no pun intended)to her work place. This give you a feel of the enviorment. Never tell her when you are coming, if possible do not let them see you in the place.If she spots you she will quite possibly give you an excuse or flare for not letting her know you are there. You don't really need to stay long. Do Relax.
4.What ever you see, you see it not in 2-D, but 3-D.
Our perception of what is real and what is not, is subjective to each man. Remember, pornography, and adult entertainment is a lucrative business based on fantasy. It becomes reality, when she takes her work home after leaving the place of business, ie. homework. If she is a well sought after student, make sure you teach her well. She will have students wanting her to "tutor" them and she may decide to do that after school. Make sure she "overcharges" the fee for that service. She is the AccountPayable, you'd better be the AccountRecieved. For this you need to be somewhere nearby to make sure students tuitons are payed in advance. You can have the "tutoring session" at a neutral site say, you're local Motel7 or Super8 hotel. Put the room in the tutors name or the students name. Before all of that, be sure to have the money in hand. This protects the pupil and the money.:box:
5. Be there to lend a hand in a time of distress. Don't solve their problems because, most of the time, they created their own source of distress. Give them the type of advice you would give to you're own child or good friend. She will either accept it and do better or continue the same to her own detriment. This is why you "overcharge" tuition at the hotel/motel. Still she owes you for the advice.
6.Do not let another man ever harm or injur you're pupil. Self-explanitory.
Ammendment: If you're pupil ever deems that they wish to challenge you're teachings and become beligerent or out of line, use nessasary force to convey your point. Do not use excessive force to repremand a pupil. Too much, could constitute a charge you don't need or want. Release a pupil that will not conform to what you teach. She is remedial. No need to hassle.:cuss:
"I heard pimpin' ain't easy but it sure is fun." -Biggie Smalls-:yes:
These 6 tips are tiny fraction of the teachings I learned in the real world, actually doing this thing called Playin'Hustlin'Pimpin'. Alot of the methods SoSuave endorses dealing with women done in a different manner. Done correctly, you can have and have you're cake and eat it too. There are way more things to tell you but, as topics arise through out sosuave threads, I paraphrase the subject as I feel fit to tell you through experience.:wave:
The main thing to remember is that you can't do it sitting in front of a computer day in-day-out. Be Active. Be Assertive. Be Adventerous.:rockon:
And one more thing..* Bell Rings* There always something...... Class Dismissed.
The lesson(s) I'm going to give to you today men: Break a hoe tacitics101/Bvtch beter have my money.:trouble:
1.If you choose to get involved with a stripper/porn star then you must lead the "arrangement" from day one. Never let a trix lead you where you need not be. Period. Assert this. Very Vital.
2.Be On Call. Not Available. People will misinterpret what I'm saying because this is not a singular statement. This is a dual-statement. I repeat, this is a dual statement. Just because you date her/fvck her dosent mean you have to take care of her. Cater to her. She's a big girl, playing big boy games, so make sure to be that from day one.
3.Do watch how she tends to interact with her customers/co-workers. Sometimes, you do need to see what she does. Occasionally, pop in (if possible)(no pun intended)to her work place. This give you a feel of the enviorment. Never tell her when you are coming, if possible do not let them see you in the place.If she spots you she will quite possibly give you an excuse or flare for not letting her know you are there. You don't really need to stay long. Do Relax.
4.What ever you see, you see it not in 2-D, but 3-D.
Our perception of what is real and what is not, is subjective to each man. Remember, pornography, and adult entertainment is a lucrative business based on fantasy. It becomes reality, when she takes her work home after leaving the place of business, ie. homework. If she is a well sought after student, make sure you teach her well. She will have students wanting her to "tutor" them and she may decide to do that after school. Make sure she "overcharges" the fee for that service. She is the AccountPayable, you'd better be the AccountRecieved. For this you need to be somewhere nearby to make sure students tuitons are payed in advance. You can have the "tutoring session" at a neutral site say, you're local Motel7 or Super8 hotel. Put the room in the tutors name or the students name. Before all of that, be sure to have the money in hand. This protects the pupil and the money.:box: 5. Be there to lend a hand in a time of distress. Don't solve their problems because, most of the time, they created their own source of distress. Give them the type of advice you would give to you're own child or good friend. She will either accept it and do better or continue the same to her own detriment. This is why you "overcharge" tuition at the hotel/motel. Still she owes you for the advice.
6.Do not let another man ever harm or injur you're pupil. Self-explanitory.
Ammendment: If you're pupil ever deems that they wish to challenge you're teachings and become beligerent or out of line, use nessasary force to convey your point. Do not use excessive force to repremand a pupil. Too much, could constitute a charge you don't need or want. Release a pupil that will not conform to what you teach. She is remedial. No need to hassle.:cuss:
"I heard pimpin' ain't easy but it sure is fun." -Biggie Smalls-:yes:
These 6 tips are tiny fraction of the teachings I learned in the real world, actually doing this thing called Playin'Hustlin'Pimpin'. Alot of the methods SoSuave endorses dealing with women done in a different manner. Done correctly, you can have and have you're cake and eat it too. There are way more things to tell you but, as topics arise through out sosuave threads, I paraphrase the subject as I feel fit to tell you through experience.:wave:
The main thing to remember is that you can't do it sitting in front of a computer day in-day-out. Be Active. Be Assertive. Be Adventerous.:rockon:
And one more thing..* Bell Rings* There always something...... Class Dismissed.
KontrollerX
Master Don Juan
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Yes.
I would just date her which means have sex with her and have fun with her.
I wouldn't love her or invest any emotion whatsoever in her.
Thats the way you treat hoes boys.
Anyway I'd love to have Jasmine Byrne as a fvck buddy.
I would just date her which means have sex with her and have fun with her.
I wouldn't love her or invest any emotion whatsoever in her.
Thats the way you treat hoes boys.
Anyway I'd love to have Jasmine Byrne as a fvck buddy.
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
The real question is, would she feel comfortable dating or having me as her BF?
Trajhenkhet01
Don Juan
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Great date. Not too sure about that LTR material thought...
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
I would just date her to fvck her. No LTR with her! Pretty much what KontrollerX said.
Hell, if you start fvcking her. Maybe, you can get a three way going with 1 of her porn star girlfriends.
Hell, if you start fvcking her. Maybe, you can get a three way going with 1 of her porn star girlfriends.
bigjohnson
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The glass cage girl was ex-navy and overall just messed up, but fun too. Just not the sort of crazy I can deal with for anything long term and I'm essentially an LTR guy, whether they are exclusive or not.
So no, I don't think I would date another one but then it's easy to say no now, sometimes it's hard to say no later.
So no, I don't think I would date another one but then it's easy to say no now, sometimes it's hard to say no later.
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
Depends. Does she do double pen? :nervous:
jafyk
Master Don Juan
And Rollo pops in with an unusually "short" response. So, what do you mean by that response? I mean would one proudly go to social events introducing his girl to both men and women as a pornstar? I don't know I'm still undecided about this one but I'd be leaning more towards the FB kind of relationship with her.Rollo Tomassi said:
An unrelated question is Rollo Tomassi your real name? Are you Italian?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
More Cowbell Please
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Hell no. She's damaged goods(mind and body).:nono: If she's not a porn *star* per say, but may have been in a few scenes in her past, I would consider her fair game.
I would date her but no long term ****. Something bugs me about the idea of any man or worse my son (if i have one in the future and he stumbles upon her on a website by accident lol) looking up my wife online.
S.S.N. 318
Don Juan
^^So True loc...KontrollerX said:
Same here but I want Big fine azz redhead Gianna (....and another girl <black girl so I can have Ice Cream Menage-a-Troi...diffrent races {latino, asian, euro,etc.}> ) **** buddy and me and her could smoke a blunt and sip some congnac and make a flick. Word Up... And Jasmine Byrne iz cute and ****-able...Fa Sho
And that's what I thought and was doing for the first 6 months but the more we hung out, the more SHE invested in me, I hardly spent anything on her, I only had a part time and still ride a bike. The more she would fulfill every porn scene I've watched and fantasized about doing, I kinda doubt the average human male won't fall and start getting attached to such a woman, because when she started crying for me and sacraficing alot, I started caring for her.KontrollerX said:
And ever since we started alot of guys, pimps, power players would try and court her and it was hard on me since I don't have money, she let me borrow her car, but I would follow the rule and pretend I'm not jealous.
But it won't stop with guys hitting on the stripper/porn star. So if you're not a robot without any emotions I suggest you just "hit and run" no hanging around till you start getting attached.
Remember the pornstar Hailey? And how some speculate that her husband porn vid director Chico wang murdered her. I guarantee you, that he started falling in love with her and was tormented day and night watching his wife getting bang from other suitors. The thought of losing her love and fantastic sex to someone else. I'm still wounded when she pops in my mind.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
She's probably a web cam girl. They make $50-100/hr. I have considered pimping out my own girlfriend for the $$$$$