sodbuster
Master Don Juan
Not interested-I wouldn't be able to hit bottom or touch the sides. I've talked to enough dancers to know how screwed up they are. don't even want to know how messed up a porn star is
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
The real question is, would she feel comfortable dating or having me as her BF?Would you feel comfortable dating or having a girlfriend who is a pornstar?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Depends. Does she do double pen? :nervous:Would you feel comfortable dating or having a girlfriend who is a pornstar?
And Rollo pops in with an unusually "short" response. So, what do you mean by that response? I mean would one proudly go to social events introducing his girl to both men and women as a pornstar? I don't know I'm still undecided about this one but I'd be leaning more towards the FB kind of relationship with her.Rollo Tomassi said:The real question is, would she feel comfortable dating or having me as her BF?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
it'll drive you nuts, it'll make you crazy trust me.it'll torment your soul.ready123 said:I would do it for the experience, same with dating a stripper
I don't know how long it would last but it would be interesting
^^So True loc...KontrollerX said:Yes.
I would just date her which means have sex with her and have fun with her.
I wouldn't love her or invest any emotion whatsoever in her.
Thats the way you treat hoes boys.
Anyway I'd love to have Jasmine Byrne as a fvck buddy.
And that's what I thought and was doing for the first 6 months but the more we hung out, the more SHE invested in me, I hardly spent anything on her, I only had a part time and still ride a bike. The more she would fulfill every porn scene I've watched and fantasized about doing, I kinda doubt the average human male won't fall and start getting attached to such a woman, because when she started crying for me and sacraficing alot, I started caring for her.KontrollerX said:Yes.
I would just date her which means have sex with her and have fun with her.
I wouldn't love her or invest any emotion whatsoever in her.
Thats the way you treat hoes boys.
Anyway I'd love to have Jasmine Byrne as a fvck buddy.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.