"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Would you marry Miss Nevada?

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There's been a lot of response to my previous thread about me going to my ex-booty call's wedding. My point was:

- Don't put women up on pedestals. Chances are that the same girl you will spending tons of money on, crying over and developing oneitis with was probably DP'd by some guy who didn't give a crap like me.

- Some people thought I said to only marry a virgin (which is virtually impossible). In reality all I'm saying is don't get married. Why should you have to pony up all the financial security and give up your balls simply because some chick decides she's done with her partying days?

For example:

Take a look at this picture of Miss Nevada. A sweet wholesome beauty queen who you would probably treat like a queen. Would you marry her?

http://imgsrv.1010wins.com/image/DbGraphic/200612/421061.jpg


Ok now, take a look at Miss Nevada again acting like a complete slvt bag. I would bet any amount of money that she got pounded by one of those dudes in these pictures that very night. Trust me, I party with girls like this all the time.

http://splashnewsonline.blogspot.com/2003/12/photos-that-stripped-ms-nevada-of-her.html

Now don't get me wrong. I would still do the dirtiest things imaginable to her (and her friends for that matter). BUT I WOULD NEVER MARRY HER!!! I would never cry over her. I would never spend ten grand on a diamond ring for her. I would never profess my undying love for her. I would never [FILL IN TYPICAL AFC CRAP HERE].

Now who's fault is it that I feel that way towards her? Mine or hers? It's my opinion that an AFC would respond that it is my fault. And it is also my opinion that a true player would respond "who gives a sh1t who's fault it is as long as you're nailing it and then moving on to something else."
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Would you marry Miss Nevada?
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Hell yeah. Would I do a lot of that AFC stuff you suggested though? No. We have folks here that struggle with separating "marriage" from "acting AFC".

Dude, seriously, what do you have against a girl having a fun time at a party while young? You have some hangups you might want to try to work though. That doesn't make her a slut. That makes her a girl that knows how to enjoy life.

But back on the pics, dang i haven't see all of those. Wow, she's hot.
 
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Shes hot but shes not all that. No I wouldnt marry her. Id give her the 6 incher and move on
 
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JPFromTally said:
Ok now, take a look at Miss Nevada again acting like a complete slvt bag. I would bet any amount of money that she got pounded by one of those dudes in these pictures that very night. Trust me, I party with girls like this all the time.
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no, she looks like a total skankbag to me. i wouldnt even touch her.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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JP, do you plan on having kids?

I do, and I want to raise them with as much as the same beliefs I have. Thinking as you do and supposing you want to have children, what would your solution be?
 
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JB, people get married for various reasons. If you're afraid of getting married because your wife must have had fun in her days before you're marrying her, then don't. You're just another insecure AFC talking....
 
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Hot!
But no, I wouldn't just judging on pics.
 
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Why do you keep suggesting that dating and marriage are automatically some finacial burdon on guys? A lot of the girls I've been seeing make and have more money then I do and they pay for alot of our outings and buy me gifts. If I were to marry one of them, I'd be set for life in terms of money and finances. Not to say I don't make enough on my own because i'm doing well in terms of my career and finances. Still, the notion that all girls are finacial leeches is completely untrue.
 
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I wouldn't marry her to begin with. Even before I saw the pictures. Shes cute, but shes not like, drop dead gorgeous. Besides, I wouldn't marry a chick just for her looks, unless I c*m just by looking at her. Then, I'd give it a serious thought. But if I'm going to attempt to spend the rest of my life with the broad, she damn well better be fun and all that jazz. I don't want to be biting my tongue for years to come, wanting to stuff her in my trunk.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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amoka said:
JB, people get married for various reasons. If you're afraid of getting married because your wife must have had fun in her days before you're marrying her, then don't. You're just another insecure AFC talking....
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this is the most truthful statement in the entire thread. cheers amoka, another piece of wisdom
 
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Skilla_Staz said:
Besides, I wouldn't marry a chick just for her looks, unless I c*m just by looking at her. Then, I'd give it a serious thought.
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If I came from just looking at her, I'd just stalk her occasionally. :whistle:
 
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Skel said:
Shes hot but shes not all that. No I wouldnt marry her. Id give her the 6 incher and move on
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I didn't think so either. Although there was a brunette in one of her pictures that I'd go after if she were 10 years older.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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amoka said:
JB, people get married for various reasons. If you're afraid of getting married because your wife must have had fun in her days before you're marrying her, then don't. You're just another insecure AFC talking....
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Yeah, I'm sure that there are women out there who wouldn't consider a relationship with me because of my wh0ring past. I mean just last week I..... :p
 
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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Yeah, I'm sure that there are women out there who wouldn't consider a relationship with me because of my wh0ring past. I mean just last week I..... :p
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What'd you do last week??
 
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Wow what a slut fest that must of been. But No i wouldnt marry her. Ill bang her out and leave her with a leave in cumditioner in her hair. There is no such thing as "miss nevada" "miss USA" "Miss Universe" i dont care if shes "Miss Extraterrestrial". Behind the "wonderful image" shes slutting it out at parties. But ill Def hit it and her friends are hotter IMO.
 
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What'd you do last week??
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I'm not saying a damn thing because it may, no... it will incriminate me! ;)
 
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Maybe. I don't know her well enough.

Based solely on her looks and those pictures, probably. I love girls that know how to party.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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