"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Would you marry a Muslim girl (since western women are so cruel)?

princess_124

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I'm coming out of the closet (not gay way)...

I was born and raised in US but my parents are from Pakistan. My family is not really religious, but my sis and I are (we don't wear the head covering though). All my life I thought only women were discriminated against. But I recently realized that men are discriminated in the western world. I know most men here dislike conservativism on here. I think it's sad that western men get treated so badly because I LOOOOVE white men <3!! That's why I want to know. Don't be rude please.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Even though you SAY you're fam is not religious, you know your family would make the guy convert.

The fact that you love white men just proves my theory.
 

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You say you are religious, so would you marry a non-muslim man? Since few "white" men are muslim, I suspect this will be a major obstacle.
 

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Sure I'd marry a Muslim woman but only in her country. Not in America. Because even if I married her right after she moved to America eventually she would catch the American b|tch disease and be just like the women already here. Since you were born and raised in America you would never be a candidate at all.

So here's a question for you miss princess. I am agnostic. I have no religious ties to anywhere . I respect everybody's right to worship as they choose or to not worship at all. And my mind is open to any religion to see if it's the right fit for me. Would you marry a guy like me?
 

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Anyone you end up with would have to convert... if he is willing to do that. No problem. I dated a Muslim girl for a year, but religion got in the way.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If...

1. She doesn't have a big nose

2. Isn't overweight

3. She obtained her US citizenship AFTER puberty. (less likely to 100% American-ize)

... I still wouldn't marry her: western marriage law is incentive for divorce. I'd need a substantial dowry to change my mind.
 

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Over an athiest girl, sure.
What about over a Christian girl?


logicallefty said:
Sure I'd marry a Muslim woman but only in her country. Not in America. Because even if I married her right after she moved to America eventually she would catch the American b|tch disease and be just like the women already here. Since you were born and raised in America you would never be a candidate at all.

So here's a question for you miss princess. I am agnostic. I have no religious ties to anywhere . I respect everybody's right to worship as they choose or to not worship at all. And my mind is open to any religion to see if it's the right fit for me. Would you marry a guy like me?
Oh come on! Not all American girls are that bad. Like I said, if you want to meet a nice girl, go to a conservative and family oriented place. If you want to go to clubs, obviously your going to meet girls that are sIutty. I know plenty of nice girls at my university. Agnostic means there is a slight chance you believe in God, I could TRY to convert...lol! But your too old for me though.

@ Vulpine, I'm not overweight. I don't have a "big nose" in fact, there was a guy who said I look white by my facial features, except my skin is darker...and I'm in my early 20s and have US citizenship
 

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More generalizations based on few or zero personal experiences and loads of prejudice...

And just to be clear some women are both western and muslim. Religion and nationality are two separate things.
 

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I'm South Indian/Christian and westernized, but I don't think I would. It's not because she's Muslim, but because I'm against marriage as a whole.

However, you being born and raised in the U.S makes you hardly any different than western girls in general.

This reminds me of a Palestinian girl I was into in my Sophomore year in college. She wore a hijab and everything. In class, the instructor asked groups of student to name 3 most important people in history. One person put Thomas Jefferson, I forgot who the other person listed was, and she apparently put "Prophet Muhammad" on the board. She turned out to be batsh*t crazy (not because what she did in class), so I'm good.

This also reminds me of a hotel party I went to after a B.O.B concert at a university. Long story short, one of the Pakistani girls had no class whatsoever and I don't think she was aware of herself. Never hang out with drunk Pakistanis. The other young Pakistani girl and I were conversing about music and she said, "I love Drake. He's my husband". I had to cut the conversation right there.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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SeymourCake said:
I'm South Indian/Christian and westernized, but I don't think I would. It's not because she's Muslim, but because I'm against marriage as a whole.

However, you being born and raised in the U.S makes you hardly any different than western girls in general.

This reminds me of a Palestinian girl I was into in my Sophomore year in college. She wore a hijab and everything. In class, the teacher asked groups of student to name 3 most important people in history. One person put Thomas Jefferson, I forgot who the other person listed was, and she apparently put "Prophet Muhammad" on the board. She turned out to be batsh*t crazy, so I'm good.

This also reminds me of a hotel party I went to after a B.O.B concert at a university. Long story short, one of the Pakistani girls had no class whatsoever and I don't think she was aware of herself. Never hang out with drunk Pakistanis. The other young Pakistani girl and I were conversing about music and she said, "I love Drake. He's my husband". I had to cut the conversation right there.
Wow, South Indians/Sri Lankans are the sweetest people ever!!! But do you look like an average South Indian (dark and short)?
 

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princess_124 said:
Wow, South Indians/Sri Lankans are the sweetest people ever!!! But do you look like an average South Indian (dark and short)?

Nowadays, girls consider guys under 6' short. I'm 5'8 1/2 so take it how you want it. I'm not that dark, but I am a few shades darker than your average North Indian living in the Himalayas.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I would rather marry a woman than her religion. Who are you as a person is the only thing that should matter not your religion.
 

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EvilSpirit22 said:
I would rather marry a woman than her religion. Who are you as a person is the only thing that should matter not your religion.
The problem with that is that some people take their religion very seriously and it's part of their identity. If you deny their religion, then you deny them partially as a person.
 

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SeymourCake said:
The problem with that is that some people take their religion very seriously and it's part of their identity. If you deny their religion, then you deny them partially as a person.

Well, I am a Hindu but I don't take my religion very seriously. I accept the good things and disagree with the bad stuff. People are ready to believe in something they never saw in their entire life but would deny the normal day to day events. I believe Common Sense is actually the only religion.

Moreover, I won't marry a person who keeps on bragging about her religion. You follow a religion and that's perfectly fine with me but just don't drag me into it.
 

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EvilSpirit22 said:
Well, I am a Hindu but I don't take my religion very seriously. I accept the good things and disagree with the bad stuff. People are ready to believe in something they never saw in their entire life but would deny the normal day to day events. I believe Common Sense is actually the only religion.

Moreover, I won't marry a person who keeps on bragging about her religion. You follow a religion and that's perfectly fine with me but just don't drag me into it.

That may work in theory in a perfect world, but it won't in this case. Even if you don't take Hinduism seriously, you would still have to convert to Islam in order to marry a Muslim girl (even if she is moderate).
 

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SeymourCake said:
That may work in theory in a perfect world, but it won't in this case. Even if you don't take Hinduism seriously, you would still have to convert to Islam in order to marry a Muslim girl (even if she is moderate).

I dated this Muslim girl for about 5 months. She was the fastest of all the other girls as far as opening her legs was concerned. Was ready to try everything in bed. They are all the same. Plus, the more you try to suppress something the more it tries to come out. This religion denies sex completely for women and that's why they are more interested in doing it. But yeah some pakistani girls are sexy and on any given day I would date them.

And no, I would never convert into a Muslim just to marry a girl.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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