Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Would you marry a Muslim girl (since western women are so cruel)?

princess_124

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I'm coming out of the closet (not gay way)...

I was born and raised in US but my parents are from Pakistan. My family is not really religious, but my sis and I are (we don't wear the head covering though). All my life I thought only women were discriminated against. But I recently realized that men are discriminated in the western world. I know most men here dislike conservativism on here. I think it's sad that western men get treated so badly because I LOOOOVE white men <3!! That's why I want to know. Don't be rude please.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Even though you SAY you're fam is not religious, you know your family would make the guy convert.

The fact that you love white men just proves my theory.
 

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You say you are religious, so would you marry a non-muslim man? Since few "white" men are muslim, I suspect this will be a major obstacle.
 

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Sure I'd marry a Muslim woman but only in her country. Not in America. Because even if I married her right after she moved to America eventually she would catch the American b|tch disease and be just like the women already here. Since you were born and raised in America you would never be a candidate at all.

So here's a question for you miss princess. I am agnostic. I have no religious ties to anywhere . I respect everybody's right to worship as they choose or to not worship at all. And my mind is open to any religion to see if it's the right fit for me. Would you marry a guy like me?
 

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Anyone you end up with would have to convert... if he is willing to do that. No problem. I dated a Muslim girl for a year, but religion got in the way.
 

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You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If...

1. She doesn't have a big nose

2. Isn't overweight

3. She obtained her US citizenship AFTER puberty. (less likely to 100% American-ize)

... I still wouldn't marry her: western marriage law is incentive for divorce. I'd need a substantial dowry to change my mind.
 

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Over an athiest girl, sure.
What about over a Christian girl?


logicallefty said:
Sure I'd marry a Muslim woman but only in her country. Not in America. Because even if I married her right after she moved to America eventually she would catch the American b|tch disease and be just like the women already here. Since you were born and raised in America you would never be a candidate at all.

So here's a question for you miss princess. I am agnostic. I have no religious ties to anywhere . I respect everybody's right to worship as they choose or to not worship at all. And my mind is open to any religion to see if it's the right fit for me. Would you marry a guy like me?
Oh come on! Not all American girls are that bad. Like I said, if you want to meet a nice girl, go to a conservative and family oriented place. If you want to go to clubs, obviously your going to meet girls that are sIutty. I know plenty of nice girls at my university. Agnostic means there is a slight chance you believe in God, I could TRY to convert...lol! But your too old for me though.

@ Vulpine, I'm not overweight. I don't have a "big nose" in fact, there was a guy who said I look white by my facial features, except my skin is darker...and I'm in my early 20s and have US citizenship
 

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More generalizations based on few or zero personal experiences and loads of prejudice...

And just to be clear some women are both western and muslim. Religion and nationality are two separate things.
 

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I'm South Indian/Christian and westernized, but I don't think I would. It's not because she's Muslim, but because I'm against marriage as a whole.

However, you being born and raised in the U.S makes you hardly any different than western girls in general.

This reminds me of a Palestinian girl I was into in my Sophomore year in college. She wore a hijab and everything. In class, the instructor asked groups of student to name 3 most important people in history. One person put Thomas Jefferson, I forgot who the other person listed was, and she apparently put "Prophet Muhammad" on the board. She turned out to be batsh*t crazy (not because what she did in class), so I'm good.

This also reminds me of a hotel party I went to after a B.O.B concert at a university. Long story short, one of the Pakistani girls had no class whatsoever and I don't think she was aware of herself. Never hang out with drunk Pakistanis. The other young Pakistani girl and I were conversing about music and she said, "I love Drake. He's my husband". I had to cut the conversation right there.
 

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Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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SeymourCake said:
I'm South Indian/Christian and westernized, but I don't think I would. It's not because she's Muslim, but because I'm against marriage as a whole.

However, you being born and raised in the U.S makes you hardly any different than western girls in general.

This reminds me of a Palestinian girl I was into in my Sophomore year in college. She wore a hijab and everything. In class, the teacher asked groups of student to name 3 most important people in history. One person put Thomas Jefferson, I forgot who the other person listed was, and she apparently put "Prophet Muhammad" on the board. She turned out to be batsh*t crazy, so I'm good.

This also reminds me of a hotel party I went to after a B.O.B concert at a university. Long story short, one of the Pakistani girls had no class whatsoever and I don't think she was aware of herself. Never hang out with drunk Pakistanis. The other young Pakistani girl and I were conversing about music and she said, "I love Drake. He's my husband". I had to cut the conversation right there.
Wow, South Indians/Sri Lankans are the sweetest people ever!!! But do you look like an average South Indian (dark and short)?
 

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princess_124 said:
Wow, South Indians/Sri Lankans are the sweetest people ever!!! But do you look like an average South Indian (dark and short)?

Nowadays, girls consider guys under 6' short. I'm 5'8 1/2 so take it how you want it. I'm not that dark, but I am a few shades darker than your average North Indian living in the Himalayas.
 

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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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I would rather marry a woman than her religion. Who are you as a person is the only thing that should matter not your religion.
 

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EvilSpirit22 said:
I would rather marry a woman than her religion. Who are you as a person is the only thing that should matter not your religion.
The problem with that is that some people take their religion very seriously and it's part of their identity. If you deny their religion, then you deny them partially as a person.
 

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SeymourCake said:
The problem with that is that some people take their religion very seriously and it's part of their identity. If you deny their religion, then you deny them partially as a person.

Well, I am a Hindu but I don't take my religion very seriously. I accept the good things and disagree with the bad stuff. People are ready to believe in something they never saw in their entire life but would deny the normal day to day events. I believe Common Sense is actually the only religion.

Moreover, I won't marry a person who keeps on bragging about her religion. You follow a religion and that's perfectly fine with me but just don't drag me into it.
 

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EvilSpirit22 said:
Well, I am a Hindu but I don't take my religion very seriously. I accept the good things and disagree with the bad stuff. People are ready to believe in something they never saw in their entire life but would deny the normal day to day events. I believe Common Sense is actually the only religion.

Moreover, I won't marry a person who keeps on bragging about her religion. You follow a religion and that's perfectly fine with me but just don't drag me into it.

That may work in theory in a perfect world, but it won't in this case. Even if you don't take Hinduism seriously, you would still have to convert to Islam in order to marry a Muslim girl (even if she is moderate).
 

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SeymourCake said:
That may work in theory in a perfect world, but it won't in this case. Even if you don't take Hinduism seriously, you would still have to convert to Islam in order to marry a Muslim girl (even if she is moderate).

I dated this Muslim girl for about 5 months. She was the fastest of all the other girls as far as opening her legs was concerned. Was ready to try everything in bed. They are all the same. Plus, the more you try to suppress something the more it tries to come out. This religion denies sex completely for women and that's why they are more interested in doing it. But yeah some pakistani girls are sexy and on any given day I would date them.

And no, I would never convert into a Muslim just to marry a girl.
 

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You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

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