"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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would you let your gf have a boob augmentation?

pyros

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I hear stories about women leaving their bfs, husbands etc after getting a boob augmentation due to the increase of male attention.

It seems their boyfriends start to get scared that their gfs are gonna leave them.
Personally I wouldnt have a problem. Actually I would find her more attractive so I would be happier LOL.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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zekko

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I freaking hate fake boobs, for the most part. I prefer natural.
Fake boobs can make a girl look better while she has her clothes on though, so I can see how she might get more attention that way.
 

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pyros said:
I hear stories about women leaving their bfs, husbands etc after getting a boob augmentation due to the increase of male attention.

It seems their boyfriends start to get scared that their gfs are gonna leave them.
Personally I wouldnt have a problem. Actually I would find her more attractive so I would be happier LOL.

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It's "the chicken or the egg" thing. Women get implants to be more attractive to men. If she already has a man, why does she need implants? She's prepping for a branch swing.
 

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Bokanovsky said:
It's "the chicken or the egg" thing. Women get implants to be more attractive to men. If she already has a man, why does she need implants? She's prepping for a branch swing.
That's the way I see it. But if she wants them I wouldn't fight it. But I wouldn't pay for them either. I hear some of these plastic surgeons have excellent financing plans for bolt-ons.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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LMFAO

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"Sure, I don't think you need it at all but if it makes you happier then I am happy to support you."

In other words yes, more to jizz on.
 

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Mauser96 said:
How would you stop your Girlfriend?
I mean, I wouldn't try to talk her out of it. It's her body. If she wants fake cans, get them.
 

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I'm not sure how you can "let" someone to do something or not. She can make her own decisions. Personally, I like boobs. :)

While some guys do legitimately prefer smaller breasts or natural breasts, I think a lot of guys are full of **** when they say they don't like boobs jobs and think if she gets one that she's going to leave for someone better. If that's your mindset, there's inner game issues for you to work on. You don't "have a girl" like she's a piece of property. She's free to go any time she wants, and likewise you are free to leave a relationship also if it doesn't meet your expectations.

I wouldn't pay for it though obviously, maybe if we were married and I was making most of the money but no way I'm anywhere near that point yet.
 

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Have been on the 'wrong end' of a boob job. I think that a chick has massive jubblies, but when I gets em out, turns out they're dubble Ds that cost a few grand.

Prefer dubble A's that are real than anysizes fakes. But personal choices, obvs.
 

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One of my co workers got some implants in the spring and she got hit on left and right. About 3 months later she dumped her bf, she was with some other dude but dumped him last monday. In January she is getting more work done on them again. Will be interesting to see the new transformation haha.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'd let her, of course. As Mauser pointed out, there is no stopping her. The question is would I stick around, and I'd go with no, absolutely not. It's like the girl that goes shopping for a skin-tight dress to wear to work - nothing wrong with doing that of course, but if she has a boyfriend/husband, you have to wonder: who''s eye(s) exactly is she trying to catch by wearing that? Besides, I'll take a perky set of B cups - hell, even some A cups - over flesh-coated saline bags any day. I loathe boob jobs on a girl more than I do tattoos.
 

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Hell no. Incisions to insert some bags of fluid. Gross.

As a side note, I see Bokanovsky's point. Boob jobs are for recent divorcees along with a Mercedes, highlighted hair, gym and tanning club membership, and "I Love P I nk" sweatshirt (even though she's 42 lol).

I don't understand why a chick in a relationship would feel the need for a boob job.

You do have to wonder if she has branch swinging on her mind.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
Girls who have natural big boobs all seem to want a reduction or a lift. There's just no pleasing women.
Big boobs give women back problems plus some big boobs sag or are deformed. Nothing wrong with a woman making herself look better.
 
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