"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Would you let your gf do topless?

pyros

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Hi.

Just wondering, would you let your gf do topless at the beach?
Personally I do not like the idea so I wont, but to be more specific:

a) Would you let her do topless when with you at the beach with a lot of ppl around?
b) Would you let her do topless when with you at the beach with a ver few ppl around?
c) Would you let her do topless at the beach when she goes ONLY with her female friends?


And, if you do not like the idea of her doing topless in any case, what would you do if she insists and she wants to do it anyway?


Thanks.

P.S.
here where I live many girls are doing topless at the beach nowadays.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Drook

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I don't know why I would let her go topless. The only thing she would get out of it would be an ego boost from getting ogled.
 

Deep Dish

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I would allow it.

On the one hand, you need to establish boundaries. On the other hand, you can’t “own” a woman, jealousy is a perception you need to avoid. Ultimately, though, it says something about her. It’s a sign of sluttiness. I’d let her have her fun, knowing I’d be the one going home to bang her, but I’d listen to the underlying message.
 

Who Dares Win

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This is a sh1t test that you cant pass, the simply fact she is asking its a problem.

You say no and she perceive you as jeaoulos and "insecure" (most abused word ever)

You say yes and she will be like a mice which starts to gnaw a piece of cheese taking more and more time after time.

The only situation where that would be a problem is a private beach of a private swimming pool terace where you are with a couple of friends and the girl of the other couple is topless as well.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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